I'm so sad ,what should i do?!


Question: I'm so sad ,what should i do?
I was seeing this guy that i work with and i had to withdraw and distance myself from him because he is unreliable and i felt like i was the one who was making an effort to spend time with him outside work.Last week,i arrange to meet up with him and go for a walk but he fell asleep and he didn't even call to apologize.I was upset and i let him know when i saw him at work and that's when he apologized.He acted like it wasn't a big deal to him.
In addition,he is also bisexual but he leans on men which kind bothers me because i feel like i won't be able to fully satisy him and i would be very wary about stds and most importantly,Aids.So i never called him, back the last he called which was last week.I wanted to distant myself and clear my
head and i have came to realize is not the right guy for me but deep down i wanted to see if he was going to chase me completely stopped calling me outside work but for some odd reason he keep asking about me to one of my co workers.

Intellectually,i can see why he is not good for me but i am miserable without him.I really talking to him and i am so sad.I have feelings for him.what should i do?

Answers:

You are hurt and its uncomfortable, especially from someone you care deeply about. I sounds like he isn't ready for a relationship like you are. He's blah za behavior of not giving a apology for obvious reasons of being rude to the person who you are involved with is a red flag. The next red flag is his bisexual diversification will be a fierce competition for you to behold. You will constantly be concerned whose he with, especially if its a guy! Whose that guy who keeps calling? Is he involved with him, etc. A woman competing with a guy liking another guy is hard to compete with.

You will be placing yourself is the way of contacting aids since its occurs in homosexual relationships and even non-homosexual relationships too. You want to live on the earth for a while and not place yourself in that kind of danger. Smart thinking, be proud of yourself in thinking about that risk.

Intellectually, you made a good move by letting him go.

Time with heal your brokenness.



If lemons fall down from the sky learn how to do lemonade



keep looking. look for the eye contact. lots of lonely guys out there.




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