How can I stop feeling ugly?!


Question: How can I stop feeling ugly?
Hi. I'm 19 years old, almost 20. If you take a look at my profile and the previous questions I've asked, they all relate to having a boyfriend, being a virgin, never having been kissed, etc. I feel ugly all of the time. I just look in the mirror and I hate myself. I feel hideous. I didn't get my moms genes at all. I'm ugly. I can't get any guys attention either. I've only been asked out twice and I'm just really unhappy with being single for 20 years straight. People have told me I'm pretty but I don't care. I know that I'm ugly. I hate the way that I look and I worry about it all of the time. People say that I need self esteem and confidence, but I don't know how. I hate being single and I hate the way that I look. I want to get better because it bothers me every. single. day. I obsess over it. Can you please help me? I've tried seeing therapy at my school but it's not working out. It bothers me everyday and it really hurts. Please help. Thanks.

Answers:

First thing is to stop telling yourself you're ugly. Are disfigured? Blind? On death's door? No? So be thankful for what you do have. Hey, I'm not the most attractive person in the world either (at all...) but I work with what I have. As hard as it is, don't dwell on the negative things and *ALWAYS* write down the nice things that people say about you. That way when you're having an off day, you can go back to those :) Don't obsess over it. Chances are, plenty of people think you're gorgeous but you just don't know it yet. Good luck, hon. This is something I struggle with everyday so I know how you feel :/



This is my question, and sorry if it is blunt, but are you ugly? Do you FEEL that you are ugly, or are you ACTUALLY ugly? If you are genuinely ugly then you need to focus on the person inside, and not outside. If you are having confidence issues, you still need to work on the inside person.

Best of luck!

I am a Troll, I know what its like.



What someone else above me said.... are you truly ugly? Uh, if you have been asked out twice then... who would ask an ugly person out? Also, if there is something that you feel is really ugly about you then get a job if you don't already have one and get plastic surgery......... sorry... but as Dolly Parton once said "you don't have to go around looking like a dog".



Im in the same boat but a lot of guys likee me I've had a lot of boyfriends, I've had sex, i m engaged & have a son.



GET EVERYONE AROUND YOU DRUNK

life



Are you Indian? If so then I don't how to tell you this but.....there is no cure :(




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