Am I codependant? What is wrong with me? T^TPlease answer this time?!


Question: Am I codependant? What is wrong with me? T^TPlease answer this time?
I have always followed around someone since I was little, before school it was my Nii-Chan and when I started to go to school it was my best friend, I follow them everywhere and never say anything I don't even have to think about it I just subconsciously follow them.


I will do anything anyone tells me, even if I don't want to. I get really depressed when people are mad at me, and I won't leave my house unless someone is with me. I feel scared when I am alone and I don't know why T^T

I am scared of making bad decisions so I always ask for help, and I can't do things by myself because my mind goes blank I can't come up with ideas, I always get bad grades on independent work and A's on group work, but I feel like it is only because the other person does all the work.

I also will not do anything without permission because I am scared someone will be mad at me, If my friend leaves I will subcontsciously follow a stranger, until they get pissed off, then I will get really scared until I see someone else walk by.

I can do a lot of things by myself and like to have privacy I just need to know that someone else is in the house when I need them, or that there is someone in front of me so that nothing bad happens.

I just want to know what is wrong with me, why am I like this, and what do I do? T^T
Advice is okay too T^T

Sorry I ask so many questions. v . v

Answers:

It seems like you have considerable fear of rejection and don't really know who you are separate from others. Bad decisions are a part of life; we all make them and they help us grow to make better decisions the next time around. You need some boundaries if you are unable to tell others no. Start to make small goals to work on and find out what you like, what you don't like and examine why you are so fearful so you can come against it.




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