Is it weird I can't remember the last time I was happy?!


Question: Is it weird I can't remember the last time I was happy?
I'm sitting here and I really can't think of a moment where I was really happy. I think everyday I'm becoming sadder and sadder everyday. How is it possible to be happy when everyday you're bullied? It's not easy to ignore them & it's not easy to find light in the dark. I want to be happy, but how when they don't understand how much it hurts me. I also go to bed at 9:30 so I can sleep and not worry about life.

How do I try not to let people's words affect me?

Answers:

It's not as much "weird" as it is unhealthy and just plain bad. It's very likely that you have depression. I'm sorry about what happens to you; I hope you know that you aren't alone. You should have your parents make an appointment with your doctor so you can be evaluated for depression and discuss your options.

I used to be bullied too, and the best advice I can give you is to stick up for yourself -- no matter how mean and distasteful you have to get. Curse, scream, pull out every dirty word you can think of, attack everything about them physically (physical remarks hurt the most) as LOUDLY as you can, NEVER look down, throw punches, run and tackle them -- just develop a reputation as someone who you don't want to **** with. Say they're fat, skinny (for guys only, girls will only take it as a compliment), flat-chested, have a huge nose, are a butterface, etc. Call out **** that they probably couldn't change without plastic surgery. And just keep repeating it every time they talk. Keep cutting them off, interrupting them with insults. And if it's someone of the opposite sex bullying you, say as loudly as you can, "Why are you so in love with me? It's not my fault I don't want to **** something as ugly as you. I'm out of your league -- leave me alone." And just keep insisting that the only logical reason they keep talking to you at all is because they like you. ("After all, if you truly didn't like me you'd ignore me.")

I think back to being bullied in middle school and cringe at the fact that I never stood up for myself. What's one or two detentions in exchange for thanking yourself for the rest of your life? Do it, kid. You deserve some self-respect.



Gosh, I'm sorry. Keep your head up and be strong. Tell someone about this, your brother or a sister a friend. Someone you can talk to. Don't let them get to you. Life well get better, trust me. You still got a whole life of head of you. Think about this, the near future, what you want, what you would like to do, example travel the world, or to a certain destination. Think about college, if you plan on going, people seem to get laid back more in high school and college, if your not already there. I remember I HATED MIDDLE SCHOOL, I had to deal with it and time flew by, I got into high school and I liked it, now it's my last year and I'm going to graduate.

Just think of the near future, it will come. I hope I helped.



Don't believe them. And don't over Analiese them. Like if someone (just for an example) called you ugly. Just ignore them and forget about it. Don't sit there and keep replaying it in your head so much that you actually start to believe it. Get help if your being bullied tell a parent, a teacher, a family member, a friend, someone who can help or listen.



no its not it happens to a lot of people just try dong things that make you happy and when someone says something negative about you brush it off and think about how much of a great person you are and the person who is telling you this is stupid and dont know what they are saying
and about the bullying i know how it feels but one day i fought back and got all the anger out of me.
please dont allow yourself to get bullied get people involed this must stop
i hope you the best god bless your soul



I know how you feel, but you just have to keep going and try new things. It's hard for some people to come across TRUE happiness. I myself have found it very hard to make myself happy. I don't know if you do sports or not,but try to get into some, talk to some new people. Some great sports that seems like a lot of people do at my school are cross country and track. Both good activities to do, help you get fit,and meet new people. (At the same time.)

Bullies are bullies because they are insecure about themselves. Trying thinking about how bad they must be if they have to resort to making someone else feel bad to make themselves feel happy. When ever I get bullied, I think about that and I say something like, "I feel sorry for you." as I walk away, and it seems like it leaves them confused sometimes, and most the time they lay off. Sometimes though they try to turn it in a fight, but just keep walking away, or if you are in a place where you can't walk away find a ground of people and just stand next to them, or listen to their conversation, even though it seems kinda creepy, it may scare the bully off.

And, though you may not want to, it wouldn't hurt to talk to a school guidance counselor. It may seem a bit embarrassing, but they help, and if you don't want to go in middle of school, then email him/her, find a time you can get out of class, or meet after school. They can help you with things like sadness, and give you advice

I hope it help!! :) (I know I'm not the best person to be giving out advice like this, but I guess as long as it gets you thinking it must have helped a little.)



that is really sad but be strong and remember, bullies are just weaklings in disguise, they're words and actions do not matter, all they can do is cause pain, that's all they'll ever be capable of and most of it is a mental effect that can be broken by developing confidence in yourself. Find yourself a purpose, self-respect. Life is too short to let it be wasted by idiots, so don't let them. If you let yourself be bullied and not stand up for urself, then you're just as bad as the bullies themselves in my opinion. SO stand up to them even if it means getting beat up or something lol you're not supposed to ignore them, that never works. just be brave, if you can't get rid of them urself, then go to someone who can help you, dont be ashamed, its not like you're the only one in the world going through something like that.




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