Girlfriend and i broke up...?!


Question: Girlfriend and i broke up...?
So my girlfriend and I broke our relationship up and we have been dating for almost 2 years... we broke up because shes not happy with herself any more and I couldn't make her happy so we broke up so she could be happy with herself before she commits to anything... her life is really stressful right now her dad is goin back to prison and has a major alcohol problem. There were some issues in our relationship but it was nothing serious to where we couldn't work it out and repair it. The odd thing is, is that she said she doesn't want to be with anybody else but me and that she needs a break to figure stuff out and find herself. She says that She sees her future with me and wants to be with me and the same for me to her but she says I need to go out and do me too.

Is it healthy for me to stay in this and I guess wait for her but still go out and do stuff?

I honestly don't want anybody but her and I do see myself with her forever and She said the same but Idk... help please and No rude comments

Answers:

sometimes people just need their space . it doesnt meean she doesnt love you or want to be with you . you know the saying "if you dont love yourself , how are you going to love somebody else?" . she just need some time to love herself again . couples take breaks all the time . and they when they get back together its even better than before. she need sto find herself again and love herself before she can come back and love you. just dont get with anybody else and respect her space and feelings. ask her if she wants to talk and if she doesnt leave her alone . just let her know youre there if she does feel like talking. AND DONT HOOK UP \WITH ANYBODY .



Don't be afraid to take some time apart. You may find that you need something different. She may find the same. Have patience and faith that you are a person in progress. Continue to grow without fear. You may yet be together.



if she is stressing in her life, she might be trying to avoid you so that she doesn't feel like she is a bother to you, and she must feel like one to her dad, or failed in trying to help him in some way, and this probably hurts her feelings to have him in that situation, so she is avoiding all issues at the moment and trying to figure out what she can do that will make her life happier, and she knows that she is responsible for that and not you, right? and so as not to bring you down, she feels that she will be making you happier..idk, all i can say to u is u need to let her know that your not happy with her decision, and that you are not doing nothing about it at this point, until you do..and see what she says, and do it this way, and honestly things can only get better, and i guess that's why they call it the blues, right? Elton John sings a good song about it..might make a little more sense to listen to that one, then listen to me, right?




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