Do you think my mother is being selfish?!


Question: Do you think my mother is being selfish?
Basically I moved very far away from my mom because she was severely abusing me, mostly verbally and emotionally but to the point that I was isolated from everyone, had no friends, couldn't use the car, she would try to prevent me from taking a shower, I had no privacy whatsoever, and so on and so forth I become very suicidal and just moved very far away. Now that I've finally kind of starting building my life from the ground up, she's trying, forcefully to get me to move back with her. Like she is using any tool she can get her hands out. She's done everything from threatening to take me to court, put me in a mental bin, not give me any money for food or shelter, and so on. I found a job, even though it doesn't pay a lot, that is closer to what I finished in college, but she said I don't belong where I am, how I should go back to living with her, even if I have to work in a factory. How do I deal with her constant badgering? She even came to visit me in the city that I am, and is going on and on about how I need to come back, so it's not like I can hang up the phone. She'll be here for a month longer, and every few minutes, she comes in and starts brainwashing me about how I should go back. Thanks for any advice.

Answers:

If you are trying to get away from her why take her money for food and shelter? Getting a Job will break all ties from her. Aslong as she have that hanging over your head, you will never be free from her nor independent... and it seems she is using that to keep you with her somehow....

Seems your mom have mental issues... Do she have a boyfriend or Husband? Do she have friends? If not then you are her only means of survival right now... she need you to feel needed in life... she demeans you by making you feel bad thinking that the lesser she make you feel... the more likely you wont go anywhere else and leave her alone



:(

I would get the authorities involved whether that's the police or social services. You don't have to put up with this, ring someone and get some genuine help.

Good luck, all the best :) x



Your mother is abusing you; you should have the willpower to leave her house and find someone you can stay with.



put her out of your house and stop answering her calls.



Get a restraining order, she can't force you to live with her



yeah i do :0




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