we are always arguin but my partner wont go!?!


Question: We are always arguin but my partner wont go!?
hi me and my partner have been together for 4yrs now and have a two year old baby. i dont want to be with my partner anymore because we are always arguing and he says ime to move out of our rented home and the baby stays with him although where both on benefits at the moment i claim from him (hes on employment and support allowance because hes says hes too paranoid to work??) while ime at college hes mum has to take care of our baby. he just will not leave and when i try to leave with our baby he wont let me i just dont no where to turn or what to do i feel trapped that i can't do anything because i dont want to go without my son even if i did go ide be hopeless and just dont no where to turn is ther anyone i can contact for advice ?? both names are on the tenacy agreement could i not phone the landlord and get him took off it? help!!!

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You need to go to your local Citizens advice bureau. Let them know what's going on. Let them know that you're on benefits. Let them know you're in education. Let them know you have a child. Let them know you have a joint tenancy with someone you can no longer live with.

You can't just have your partners name taken off of the tenancy agreement. That agreement gives him rights as a tenant and gives him the right to be in the property that you both rent. Neither of you can kick the other out.

You need proper advice. Advice that only a professional body of people can help you with. I'm sorry I can't be of more help but this is a complex issue that can't be sorted out by people on here. You need to ensure your safety, fore-fill your obligations as a tenant and ensure that you're doing the right thing legally/socially. Get some decent advice.

The CAB are very good and they won't contact your partner.

http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/



You could go to a womans refuge, every town has one. Take your baby with you they will provide accomodation and advice re benefits etc. The landlord cannot help as you are both on the tenancy. Tell your partner that is what you are doing and the awful upheaval it will be on your baby he may agree to leave for the sake of the baby once he realises you are going to leave if he does not. He sounds very immature not putting his babys needs first.



you should go to doctors immediately.




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