sad, bored, fed up. meaning of life?!
Question: Sad, bored, fed up. meaning of life?
i dont have a terrible life...but it isnt perfect either. my best friend (whos life is pretty bad) is always moaning at me saying im such a wuss and she thinks im faking it all for attention, but im not. I dont fit in with my friends anymore, im loosing them, they dont include me in there convorsations and i think its because i feel so dull and gloomy. I go home and my brother annoys me and my mum just ignoors me. Finnaly i get to see my dad on saturday but i cant look forward to it because i know after a few hours i will have to go again. School is rubbish, i used to be top of the class but now i cant concentrate.
Please will someone help. if anyone wants to message me my email is emmaipod@yahoo.co.uk
please will someone help
Answers:
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The search for "the meaning of life" is an existential crisis. For those who spend a good deal of time asking "is this all there is", depression awaits. It's time to take inventory of the goals you have set for yourself, and determine if they will deliver the meaning you seek. If not, you may have to go back to the drawing board of life, and try to imagine what activities would bring a sense of purpose to your life, and begin to pursue it.
It is an exciting time of life, you are young, everything is in front of you, and it don't sound like you have made any critical mistakes that would limit your potential.
Good luck on the journey.
-------------we should all have hope-------------
there is a general meaning to life
and there is a individual meaning to life
the general meaning to life is to re-connect our relationship with God
and our individual meaning to life is what God has giving us, the plan that he has for our life
whether we chose to accept or not
i went through that phase aswell, i hated everything how longs this going on for because i am sure that something exiting will happen to you in a short amount of time, just don't give up.
Hey der i know how u feel dis is the same in my life too..the same wake up go to skol,come back play on xbox or pc study n sleep..ah so boring,ha ha me an u same but life's a game.,it may change
Seriously, you have every sumptom of being depressed.. maybe you should go to the doctors.
And don't worry, school days arn't the best days of you're life, i left school about 3 years ago now, and my life is sooo much better! But since you probably have a while left at school, make the most of it, try and make each day different and more fun just by thinking positive. If you don't try to change it, it won't and will get worse. You need to start smiling and just getting on with it.
i'm 55 years young and i have finally figured out the meaning of life after 4 suicide attempts. the meaning of life is ...are you ready... it's what you make it!. it is that simple. the meaning of life is simply what you make it. most people think that it is hard that it is complex but it really isn't. as long as you don't hurt others you do in your life what makes you the happiest. what ever that is. it is different for different people. i just recently figured that out and boy did i ever feel stupid when i did. i suffer from several forms of mental illnesses. i have schizophrenia, bipolar, PTSD, severe depression,
severe anxiety and dissociation. i also have diabetes and have had several strokes before i hit 50. one took me 5 years to overcome. i wasted a lot of time trying to figure out why ME. why did GOD let all this happen to me. i was abused by my adopted parents as a child and a young adult. then i figured out that GOD had a plan for me and that was to try and help people and not just people like me but as many people as i could. ( and no this is not my schizophrenia talking). this is not a mission. it is something that makes me happy, helping others. everyone has some kind of plan for their lives they just don't' try and bother to find out what it is so they remain unhappy. they don't realize that their happiness lies in their own hands. even just a smile to a stranger and a hello is enough to help someone who might be feeling down whether they respond or not. usually they smile back. try to find what makes you happy that doesn't cause anyone harm and you will find the meaning of life for yourself.
man blessings to you!
Hi, my names mikaela, im 17, from australia. I have and still do experience the same things as you do every day of my life. the first thing you need to know is that you are not alone.
i have always been the one to help others instead of myself, no matter how much im suffering. im not sure why but that's just me, i never put myself first.
if you want, you can email me as often as you like, just to talk about things, get something off your chest or even to vent, i will always listen because i know where you are coming from and i understand how you are feeling. i check my emails every day, so i'll always be there if you need something.
mikaela.rankin@gmail.com