Am i mental?!,.,.,.,.,.,.,..?!
Question: Am i mental?!,.,.,.,.,.,.,..?
- i banned her off facebook
- i deleted all her contact off msn
- i stopped her going out completely, even with family
- i gave her 2 days a week on her laptop. No longer than an hour each of those days
- i took her makeup away
- i told her she is not allowed to text anyone except me
- i deleted some of her phone contacts
- i told her she wasnt allowed to wear thongs or coloured bras (only white ones)
- i banned her from wearing clothes that showed her skin
- i banned her from talking to boys completely
- i made her save her money for when we have a baby (im 17 shes 15)
I also did lots more...
Do i have problems?!
Were not together anymore as i drove her away... Do i have summing wring with me i also gave her concequences for if she disobeyed me
Answers:
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Yes, this isn't normal... I'm sure that if you went to see someone, they could help you relax when in a relationship.
Good luck x
First off, you can't be mental. Mental means brain and you can be brain. Anyway, you sound like an abuser. You gain control over someone, and when they don't do what you say, you make them regret it. It's good that she left you, she didn't deserve to be treated like that. No one does. Believe me, my dad has been abusing me all my life. You might want to see a professional to get some of your problems under control. Otherwise you'll be that way forever and never be able to hold a relationship.
Get a life you stupid abuser
you deservr to go to jail for having to treat her like that, she deserves more than this
Yes.You have serious control issues.Which are abusive.
YOU'RE FKEN STUPID! GET A LIFE. Like really? Treating a girl like CRAP?! I'm glad she left you, cause you're a a$$, Get some professional HELP.
Yes it seems like you have some problem.
She was so lucky to get away.
uh...yeah
Treating ur girlfriend like crap and controling her is bad.
Why would u ban her on facebook/ fare enough i can understand if u dont want her talking to boys,but u could have just told her to delete all the boys from her face book but allow her to talk to friends and family.
why wouldnt u let her see her family/ they have more right over her than u.
She can go on her lap top as many times as she wants its her lap top.
Its her phone she can decide who she wants to text, as long as its not another boy, banning her from showing her skin is ok. baning her from talking to boys is ok, but sometimes its necessary, why should she save all her money. u should save the money