How do i get over my childhood trauma?!


Question: How do i get over my childhood trauma?
I always tthoughtthat what my parents did was normal and that it was ok for them to spank me with a belt or frying pan.

I also rrealizedthat I have emotional problems, and suffered from something ttraumaticwhen i was a kid. I recently found out that being hit with a frying pan or belt is abuse, and that is probably why i am ttraumatized I love my parents, and it hurts to think that they would ever do this to me. I want to get over my childhood, and overcome the trauma. How can i do this?

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with a frying pan? thats just abuse. wtf is wrong with them?



I suggest that you get over something that really wasn't abuse. Your parents were correcting or punishing you in the way they thought was best. I am a Mother of four and have asked each of them if they had any problems with the past spankings I gave them. I asked if it helped or hurt and for the most part they say it didn't make them better or worse. They have no problems with it now, as they are adults. I think this new way of raising children without ever spanking them is a bunch of bull. When you have children of your own, your feelings will change. Don't feel angry toward your parents who were quite normal.



confront your parents that- what they did to you was wrong - beating you up when you where a child leaves a traumatic effect on you, and it does build up to becoming a grudge or emotional pain. leave your parents if they dont agree to what you feel, block them away from your life, if they ask why tell them that your traumatized by them, when you see them you remembered that they beat you up and to think about it, you really feel bad and hurt, eventually they will apologize and you'll feel better and maybe they'll make it up to you.




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