Being sad after a breakup...is this normal?!
Question: Being sad after a breakup...is this normal?
I keep hearing"one last cry" by brian mcknight..."just to see you smile" by tim mcgraw....and "cant be friends" by trey songz. I will sit in a dark room and cry while listening to these songs. I went through a breakup not too long ago. I have trust issues and i am so ugly that i dont have mirrors in my house. I'm so fat...i've tried to starve myself...but it doesnt work. I thought about suicide...i shouldnt be on earth...i dont belong here. There is a new guy that i like but he's also bipolar....he acts like he wants me and then he avoids me then he acts like he wants me and so on....plus he thinks i should loose weight. I'm 17 and a american overachiever...but my love life stinks. Did i let my breakup take over my life? And if so is it to late to change things?
Answers:
Yea you have let the break up start to run your life, but no you can change it. First, no one is ugly. I know a candid Christian answer...right? But it's sooo true! and from experience, starving yourself actually makes you feel uglier. Try writing something positive on a stick note and putting it on the bathroom mirror. Eventually you will start to believe the truth. Suicide is not the answer. Try seeking professional help or a parent or a pastor. (: