Normal sexual things makes me feel sick, should I go through reconditioning?!

Question: Normal sexual things makes me feel sick, should I go through reconditioning?

I am a girl and am unable to get sexually aroused by either men or women in normal situations, I have never had a real crush on any of my peers, and I get bored or grossed out during sex scenes in movies. I did have a boyfriend but I broke up with him because every time he would kiss me I would feel sick to my stomach and I would hate it when he held my hand. The only things that give me any sort of arousal are really violent BDSM/bondage pics, but those aren't normal and I don't want to be attracted to things like that. I also never orgasm. I feel like a freak, do you think I should go through reconditioning therapy?

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There is some reason you are feeling this way, I think. violence and bondage, etc, are not things that come normal for people. So, you need to talk to people who are experienced with the variations of sexual issues like these SASH.net

I think you need to see a shrink. When you were grossed out kissing your boyfriend was it because he was beneath you because you feel you were so much better? Maybe you need to raise your standards and wait for the right man. I think when you find a man you like you need to make it a challenge to him to make you orgasm. It would be nice to know and fun to try to make you orgasm in every different way. You could guide him through it and tell him what you want him to try next (oral, spanking, anal, etc.).

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Normal sexual things makes me feel sick, should I go through reconditioning?!

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