How can I just accept that this event has happened and get over it?!
Question: How can I just accept that this event has happened and get over it?
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Rupert (or Tyler) you are unhealthily obsessed with this topic. You have received many answers to your inane questions and have been reported for abuse numerous times. May i suggest becoming recepitant of some mental help?
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Asking for the millionth time again I see.
Its unlikely that this poor guy suffered that badly. As soon as he became starved of oxygen, he would have passed out really quickly. It would have been like having an anaesthetic.
There is immense suffering in this world and none of it makes sense. All we can do is try to make the best of the time that we have and try to change the world one good deed at a time.
What helps me is a very strong belief that there is a greater plan, and that nothing lasts forever - not sadness, or pain, or death.
Try to move on from this. You cant help the poor guy who died but you can most definitely make a difference to all those out there who are still alive. I suspect that you will end up in a caring career of some kind. Help others and you will start to heal yourself. Good luck and remember that life is precious - and that includes yours!
Hearing about these kind of things is really depressing and it is really sad. Maybe in some way you feel some kind of connection to the guy who was killed? Either way, most people feel bad for a person like this for a moment, but then they move on. I'm guessing you suffer from anxiety. If this is still bothering you that much, you should definitely go to a psychiatrist.