Why do i feel upset whenever im not part of something?!


Question: Why do i feel upset whenever im not part of something?
uhm yeah, its really weird.
my ex-gfs b-day is coming up, all my friends got invited besides me (obviously) and now i feel like a emo cos im left out, even tough i exactly know i wouldn't come anyway, even if i was invited....
pretty much start telling myself that they aren't my friends etc.
anyone knows how to deal with this? im usually pretty calm but for some reason this really ***** me up :X
- and no, i only think of my ex as a friend, nothing else.

Answers:

..Hi Dennis, I would not get to upset over not getting invited, after-all she is your ex and this would be a normal action for most any ex to take..But, if you really are upset over this, (be honest with your self) then it is probably because down deep, you may still have some feelings for her, and have not yet had the closure you really need to move on with your life, which will come in time..As for getting upset because you are not a part of something, this would obviously be your own choice..It is our self only that either chooses or does not choose, to be a part of anything..Just as "we have to be a friend first, to make a friend", the same applies with being a part of something..If you want to, then choose to, and yes, it is this simple..We are the only one who stands in our way..Sometimes being a bit more assertive in helping or standing up for our self is all it really takes to put our self back into, anything really..We cannot stand on the side lines and then blame someone else because we choose to not get involved..Get involved!...Take care..




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