What would cause a person to not want to leave someone else's home?!

Question: What would cause a person to not want to leave someone else's home?

My brother has a girlfriend, who is highly unstable I would say. Basically whenever she comes over, her and my brother have screaming matches, they fight in the middle of the yard, break things. One time he bought her a 300 dollar phone, she smashed it on the ground and it broke in like a gazillion pieces. Then one time when they were arguing, they broke the glass on the door, and that's a pretty thick glass to break. She'll scream in the yard at 3:00 am. She'll scream anywhere and everywhere, on a bus, at a cafe. As a result of this, I don't want her in my home. They also will lock themselves in the kitchen, or bathroom, and you basically can't use it. Now whenever someone tells her to leave, she absolutely refuses to leave. And I just don't get it. Because if someone asked me to leave their house, I would be really ashamed and embarassed and I probably would never want to come back again. However she comes back, and refuses to leave. Just absolutely refuses...and I'm just wondering, what is wrong in her head that she won't leave other people's houses? This also happened at a cafe, where the owner tried to kick her out and she wouldn't leave...So..yea what is wrong with her? Is it a sense of entitlement, or does she have no respect for the owners or is she sadistic, what is going on here? Thanks.

Answers:

I'm no doctor,and I can not diagnose anyone over the internet.But,I can say just from what you've said about the whole cafe' thing and especially that you yourself have asked her to leave your home,and the cafe' owner had also asked her to leave.Which the cafe' owner should have simply called the police and had her thrown out.Period.And,you should have called the police as well,had her thrown out,and also get a restraining order on her.I don't know what is stopping you.But,if you want to continue to allow this woman(brothers g/f) to keep coming over,and causing this much aggravation,and destruction to your home...then so be it.But,if I were in your shoes(which I'm not) I would have called the police long ago,got a restraining order..long ago,and would never allow this woman in MY house again.Period.From where I stand,and from what you've said here...This woman has no respect for anyone or their property.Good luck..

im not a dr but it sounds like she may have some sort of personality disorder

if your brother wants her out and she wont leave then he can call the police ,they can also decide if she needs a psychiatric assessment
no one will be totally sure what is going on in her head but until she gets sorted then your right would not have her in my house either

best wishes

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What would cause a person to not want to leave someone else's home?!

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