Why do I hate people so much???????!


Question: Why do I hate people so much???????
I hate being around people. I'm happy when I'm by myself. I'm unhappy when I'm around people. I'm 19 & I live with my dad & stepmom. I commute back & forth to college. A normal day for me is real simple. I wake up, & go to school. I get home & go to my private gym. I do weights, boxing, & cardio. Then I go eat. I come back home to study. Then the rest of the day, I either watch movies, read, play the Xbox, play on my laptop, listen to music, or go for a drive. I have no friends. I've never had one friend. I've never had a girlfriend. I hate being around people. I don't ever want friends. I don't ever want to get married. I just want to live by myself forever. People say that I'm weird & that I'm depressed. Why am I like this?

Answers:

People are easy to hate, sometimes. But seriously, first question- were you always like this? What were you like socially as a child and young teen? Secondly, I think the fact that you are asking this question, shows that you have concern about your life and where it's going, and you are wondering what it would be like to be a social person, have friends, a partner, wondering if the grass is greener on the other side. Because of this, I think maybe you should talk to a therapist, just to find out where your feelings are coming from, and if you are depressed. Realize, that sometimes depression shows up with different symptoms, especially in men. You dont have to be in bed crying everyday or even any day, or anything like that, to have depression. There's just many types of depression and many reasons for it. With some poeple it's heavily influenced genetically. Anyway, I just think you should explore this with a therapist for your own good. One day you could wake up and think, I wish I had a family, or something more in life. At least if you explore this now, you can't say later that you didn't try. Keep in mind too, sometimes you have to try different therapists until you find one you really like and "click" with. But, I hope you do try for your own sake, if you still feel the same later on, then just do as wish.



Well...I'm not at liberty to tell you how you should be living your life.But,you can simply ask yourself 1 question.."Am I happy with my life"? Well..are you? And,if you answered no to that question,then maybe you should work on figuring out why you are not happy living the way you are,and try changing your lifestyle,and your life.Take care.



Some people just don't like other people. I'm the same way. I relate more towards animals than I do with people. People are stupid. They think too much into their emotions and hurt each other without a second thought.
If you're not depressed and you thoroughly enjoy where you are now, then screw everyone else. You're the author of your life. Only you know what is right for you.



Everyone feels like you are feeling but not for so long, if it continues, dude you better start living keeping in touch with people, you are gonna live this given life only once, dont waste it being alone.

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Because you close your self to much to you only. Your not open to others and even to freedom. You contented on what you are and what you have. Better see a psychologist for more advice.

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You're just lucky to have the complete opposite feelings that most people have. Do you not want to be around others because they bore you, or annoy you? If your wondering why you don't have any friends you may be depressed. Only one way to find out, the doctor. Do people just bother you, or do you avoid them, to not get involved with some activity you are not good at, or the activity is beyond you? One way to find out is be with some people and explore what it is that makes you not like to be with others. What pushes you away from them or grinds on your nerves. You are smart enough to do this by yourself, just be aware of the things that drive you away. Then you have your answers



I don't know why you are like this but don't worry, it's OK.
Having relationships with people takes a lot of time & energy and it seem that you prefer to allocate yours to yourself. Selfish? Maybe, but who is to judge.

I am not as antisocial as you describe yourself but definitely closer to you than "normal". I have found a few friends and a boyfriend of 14 years who are similar in needs. We all give each other the time & space we need for ourselves - obviously I have no children.

Better you know who you are and what you want than to try and satisfy some ideal.



Well, are you depressed?
I don't think you're weird. You're probably just a severe introvert. Some people are more comfortable being in total isolation rather than spending time interacting with others.
I don't see a problem with your behaviour so long as it feels right to you.
Were you like this as a child? If so, this could simply be a behaviour that was instilled into your personality from early childhood. If you were over-sheltered, anxious, and/or socially inept from a young age, that affects your social preferences into adulthood.
Besides, people generally suck. They create so many problems, the majority are boring and stressful. Personalities clash, etc. Not everybody is a "people person."
I myself am a lot like you, though I need human interaction from time to time lest I become one-hundred-percent socially inept regarding communicational skills.




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