What's going on here?!


Question: What's going on here?
Have I just been cast aside?
I was close to a colleague, looked after her kids for years, now they have all grown up and don't see as much of me. She herself is going through a bereavement and it is 6 months since it happened. We seemed to get a bit closer since it all but now it is like she doesn't want me around and that I am in her way. She also says she will bring the children to see me but then doesn't end up bringing them yet doesn't tell me. Has she just decided I am not worth bothering with anymore?
I miss her a lot but feel like our friendship doesn't mean much to her despite everything I have done for her and the way we seemed to get closer since the bereavement.
I hear her laughing and chatting with other colleagues but she doesn't even want to chat to me anymore and I don't get what I did wrong. How should I deal with this?
She can say very sweet things to me but then will go the opposite way, I don't get it?

Answers:

sounds to me like she has a few issues let her know you are there when ever she needs a friend and if she doesn't accept your offer then maybe she isn't worth bothering with friendship is a 2 way thing



Why let this person, who appears to be playing headgames on you mess up your mind?

She's probablay some ruling class elitist who thinks her poop don't stink.

Drop her like a lead pipe, and never look back.



WHY NOT ASK HER WHY THE CHANGE




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