Please help, i'm being bullied AGAIN!?!


Question: Please help, i'm being bullied AGAIN!?
Hey I'm Shannon and I'm 14. Well I was bullied at my old school for 3 years so I moved to a new school. I've been there for 2 months now and I am being bullied again. I really don't know what to do, I don't want to tell my mum because I don't want to worry her. They all hate me and they've made it very clear. Some say they don't like me, others just say mean things and gossip about me. I think it's because i'm shy. I used to be very outgoing but that was before the bullying that started 3 years ago. I guess I get on with the boys ok but all the girls really hate me. At lunch time I hang out with a guy from my Science class and his mates. They all seem to like me but none of them are in my class. I thought this new school would be different but it's not. I don't know where to go from here. I just hate school with a passion. It's so hard to get up in the morning. I'm really not the type to be dramatic but i' thinking of leaving school to get homeschooled. For a couple of years at least, until I get my confidence back. Well what do you think I should do? What would be the best thing to do? I just don't want to cause any unnecassary stress for my mum. Thanks. Any questions just ask.

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Most girls bully others because they are insecure about themselves and feel that you have something that they don't. What kind of stuff do they bully you about? I always ignored what people said and not fuel them. They eventually stop. Maybe if you have enough confidence you can go up to them politely and ask why they are so mean. Stay strong, be confidant. If you are insecure, they will notice it and pick on you more...they see you as an easy target. if you dont want to tell your mum, maybe there is a guidance counselor that you can talk to.

The best peace of advice I can give you is to not give a **** about them.

You just focus on your studies, maybe hit some weights for strength, and let the idiots gossip about you: which, by the way, is a bit weird. Have they got a fetish for you? Seriously, have they nothing better to do? I'm serious.

Sounds to me like if all the guys like you, and all the girls don't...then they are JEALOUS. Simple as that. Don't let that affect you, keep on being your pretty self and some girls will come around. The ones who don't, screw 'em!

T

I think you may consider, learning how to get along with girls. Maybe the boy's that you get along with have sisters or friends who help you.


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