I want to kill my dad, help?!


Question: I want to kill my dad, help?
My dad is an alcoholic, he drinks all day everyday and he swears and beats me and my mom. He has stomach cancer and is going to die soon. I dont care anymore cause he makes my moms and my life very difficult. I just want to kill him so we don't suffer, hes not dying fast enough. He was supposed to be dead 1 year ago but hes still alive.

How should I kill him?

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Additional details: You love your Dad? The fact that bad things happened in his life he gives himself permission to beat his wife and child? That's okay with you? Do you now see the damage such a damaged person can do? You're entire perception is skewed. You no longer know right from wrong. He has changed who you could have been if he hadn't gone against nature and beat the ones he was supposed to love and protect. You will never become who you could have because he has caused you to live in constant fear. He has taught you it is an okay response to impose a violent solution to his frustration and aggravation. In order for you to counteract the damage he has done, you need therapy. You need to learn another way to deal with frustration than your fists and violent/abusive language. Right now, all you know is his way, and doing it his way is going to reap exactly what he has sown: a family that wants him to die fast. Is that what you want? No. So get a new example. Learn from a counselor how to deal with frustration.

you NEED to attend alateen meetings, or al anon. your rage is common for those of us who grew up with a violent abusive alcoholic. i say get a baseball bat and tell him if he touches you again, you'll use it. then use it. or you could just call the cops like a normal person and let the system do its job. but that's not what you want is it? you want payback. you want him to pay personally for everything he's done to you and yours over the years. however, you are not going to be allowed that solution unless you also choose to go to prison for a while. so, the best revenge is to call the cops, really.

of course, if you want to take the chance of ending up in jail, you could fight back with the baseball bat. nothing controls a bully like pain. nothing stops a bully like fighting back. i completely understand the desire to kill him, but really what would that accomplish? you'd only end up in jail and your mom would be alone. i say ignore him. attend your meetings so you know you're not alone (this problem is so common it's almost funny).

no, go to your meetings. learn to cope with frustration and the damage you have had heaped upon you. if you don't, you will have that rage poisoning your life for as long as it takes for you to let it go. and letting it go takes a great deal of maturity and time. you have to give up on the wish that your life had been different and accept that it is what it is. you can make it better on your own. and not to add to your problem, but to give you a head start of what's ahead, you are going to have to start forgiving your mother for letting him beat you. for staying with a lowlife drunk that hurts her boy. for not taking a stand sooner. afterall, she is the adult, not you. good luck, hon.



There is no good reason for you to ruin you life or your mother's life. Killing him would end his misery and begin yours. Even if you somehow got away with it how long do you think it would take you to start drinking yourself to forget that you were now no better than him? You don't say how old you are but you have to make the decision to stay in the situation or find a way out. A friend or relative. You must understand your Mom is caught up in this situation and probably has been for a long time. Removing yourself to somewhere else would be far better than killing him.



I would take having your any day of the week. The only thing i have left of my dad is pictures and memories. Just don't kill him you will regret it more then ever he needs help. See about sending him to a treatment facility. My dad died 10 years ago in a fatal car crash that killed him instantly. You should be lucky to have some kind of dad even though he may not be the best dad in the world. He may not admit he has a problem, but as soon as he does he will hopefully get better.

Myself.



alcaholics are usualy hard headed and dont realy participate in any help whether there dieing or there causing abuse to there familys,ive had to deal with my dads alcaholism for 16 years now and it can be a pain there is physical abuse but more importantly emotional abuse it can cause you and you're mom heart ache and pain i reccomend you get out of there any way you can,my dad has been a alcaholic for 30 years meth addict for 20 theres no progress and he denies his illness,its caused my mom to commit suicide,and be emotionaly strained and for me the same but its caused me a deadly disorder that ill battle forever,please do everything to get ride of him by jail or other contacts or by you guys leaving.good luck,look forward to the little things,and always have you're head high.



By all means, do NOT kill your father! You will regret it forever if you do and may even be put in juvey. Try getting him admitted to a hospital or call the ambulance. Or child protective services.



don't. my friend pulled a knife on his drunkass dad to get him to stop beating his mom and even though he still really hates him he regrets it.

don't put something like that on your conscience.



Please don't do it! You'll terribly regret doing that. Call the police and report him ASAP! Keep Jesus in your heart.

Me




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