how do i become more confident in myself?!

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we all have our insecurities..

most women deal with insecurity regarding their looks.

i would suggest to try not to compare yourself to others in a negative way. if you find urself wishing u were skinnier, try working out more.... eating better... if you find urself thinking other women's makeup looks prettier, try experimenting different things that look good on You.

pretty soon u'll start realizing how to make urself look ur 'best'.. including hairstyles and things. it's all about experimenting and finding what gives u the most compliments, or what makes you think you look super great! :)

and when u feel good, you act different in front of others.... u are more confident, smiley, happier, and people get attracted to THAT too, not just how you look on the outside.

i think it really starts inside urself, but u can do little things here adn there on the outside to help. like trying on clothes that look good on ur body, or are trendy, and cute. people notice when u care about your 'style' and develop your own.

everyone is attractive in different ways.... sometimes i feel super pretty, and then i step outside and look at other girls and feel so unattractive!!! but then u'll meet some people who are alwasy prettier, or less prettier, than you, and u realize that life is more than just the outside appearance. and we all could do better w/ a stylist or makeup artist, but who cares? :) find a happy medium, but make sure to take care of urself well... people notice that and will compliment that.

take care and good luck~

Well your profile picture is beautiful, I think you look like a wonderful person. The key is to stop caring what you might "think" other people might thinking about you. Hold your head up high, smile and always believe a dream that you have with all your heart. Make sure anyone you get involved with are beautiful on the inside as well. It doesn't matter if you weight 700 pounds, have acne, or don't have nice clothing, it's what's inside that counts. Everyone around you probably stares at you all the time right? You think they are staring because there MUST be something wrong with you? Well whenever I felt like that, someone would always tell me, they are staring at you because you are beautiful (and of course I would never believe them) then one day my friend said to me, it's because your staring at them, and knowing you you probably dont have the nicest face on either! Well I was upset at first, but then I realized I was staring at them! Stop thinking that everyone is staring, and stop staring yourself. As I said, smile, and focus on Y.O.U.! radiate from the inside, and it will shine through. Noone is perfect, but beauty on the inside is all you want to accomplish, and if you have, then just step outside your comfort zone, say hi to a stranger, or to people you see everyday! They may see it as weird, you may want to melt into the floor, but after a while, that confidence will shine through, it all depends on you. Remember it's what's inside that counts!

Feeling that way before

Well if thats you on your display pic then youre pretty to me. In a relationship to me well one has to like you for who you are not for what you look like, its cliche ish but it works when its true love not just for the "fun" of it.

if thats you in the picture,your very pretty but it dosent really matter what you look like just have fun being you