(Female problem) What's wrong with me to feel embarrassed by them at my age!
Question: (Female problem) What's wrong with me to feel embarrassed by them at my age?
I'm 19, going on 20 (so now I'm old and a freak). I don't know how I've never outgrown this. I've, of course, been with my friends around their families, and they wear all of the stuff they wear when we're at school in front of their families.
The stuff I like to wear isn't revealing at all, so that's not the problem. What's wrong with me?
This is so embarrassing and sounds incredibly immature. I swear, at school, I'm a regular person. I relate well to others (have normal social skills), am friendly, am driven (I've known since age 4 exactly what I want to do with my life, and I work really hard to achieve my goals), etc.; it's not an issue with adulthood or anything like that.
Thank you so much.
Answers:
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First of all, you are not a freak. If you feel more comfortable hiding your breasts around your family, it is ok. But, I have to ask, is there a family member who makes you feel uncomfortable, when you dress as a young woman? You may be picking up on something, so trust your feelings. Also, were you ever molested by a family member? Obviously, you do not have to answer-I am only trying to give you some ideas-which may be off base. If this continues, you may want to see a counselor
RN
Dont wear anything showing yr cleavage ..only with mum and dad. Try wearing jumpers then see how family react. You can gradually start wearing like t-shirts after your confidence starts to grow.
There's nothing wrong with you. I don't understand how girls can dress ike whores in front of their parents.
You need to see a psychologist who will give you tools to address your affliction.