How can I become more self-confident?!


Question: How can I become more self-confident?
Around my friends, I'm generally very outgoing and chatty, but around new people I'm terribly shy and self-conscious. Growing up, I was a really weird child, and though I make friends pretty easily now-of-days, I still find it hard to talk to strangers- especially in Spanish, which is my only non-honors class. I feel as though I'm being judged when I speak (I have a passion for languages and work really hard to perfect myself in that class), and it's really embarrassing. :/ There's a group of girls that sit by me in that class, and I hate to judge people, but they're all very shallow. Whenever I say something to somebody nearby, they look at me like I'm doing them some kind of offense, just by opening my mouth to speak. I'm not a loudmouth in class (I'm actually very softspoken), so why would they be giving me such dirty looks? I've even known some of them since elementary school. Really, I'm disappointed in myself that I'm letting their opinion get to me, because they're such annoying girls (the only thing they talk about is how "smart" and "beautiful" they are, when in actuality, they're neither). How can I learn to be myself, even when around strangers and judgmental people?

Answers:

you can do that by reassuring your positive personality traits and working on stuff that you dislike about yourself, and there's nothing to be embarrassed about you trying to perfect your language skills, as a matter of fact it's a remarkable quality, so be proud of yourself and do not waste energy on negative people! they just envy your passion for life!



don't let them bring you down just always remember you're beautiful everyone is in there own way and i bet your very smart but its okay to be shy because i am but really i have a great life at times and not at times but everyone has that just remember to keep your head high girly :)



I guess that would be normal. Some of us are very outgoing when it comes to friends but shy to new ones its just that were used to our friends and meeting new friends we don't know if they could understand our behavior.

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You're pretty cute! :3
But even if the snobby girls were hot or something, their stuck up nature makes me cringe in disgust.



Way way to long a question to answer




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