Is it normal to feel like killing everyone that's hurt me?!

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It's fairly normal to get mad, but hurting yourself isn't good. You need something that helps you deal with your anger. Don't let your anger get the best of you, it's not worth it.

Are you a human being? If so then it's very normal. Human's have a natural urge to get revenge and anything in their way is just an annoyance. Don't kill them just beat the S@$! out of them. Easier and you don't go to jail for as long (If at all). Or just play lots of violent games or buy a punching bag. Anything that helps relieve anger.

Go play some violent online multiplayer video games.

Yes. If not you'd be a psychopath.

I can understand how you feel, but heres what you should try to think of doing, 1. Think of all the people who have ****** up them, then realize that everyone has **** to deal with. 2. Try to release your anger on something that doesnt affect anyone. Its too bad people have to be jackoffs, but killing for a reasons other than self defense solves nothing. Im not gonna sit here and tell you not to think those thoughts, or do anything like that because im not some snooty "doctor" who doesnt know what the **** they are talking about, but one thing I can tell you is that doing nothing is the best course of action, because even though you might not care if you go to jail, death penalty, rehad, etc. there are people who will. So you need to learn to manage your actions, but your thoughts are very hard to control. Just know that hurting them back will make them hurt you more. I honestly think you should learn discipline, it helps a lot. Just know that there are clear lines of authority, an order, and if you **** with it then your *** is gone. Also, try to just keep your mind off of it, "the idle brain is the devil's playground" besides its school, who really gives a ****. Theres like 3 types of people at school, the douchebags who think they're hot **** and treat people like ****, people who care so much about it that they treat people like ****, and then funny people who are laid back. Associate with the 3rd group, and stay with nice people, and those thoughts will be diminished. I cannot tell you why you think that way, but I can honestly say that when i am really mad, I have thoughts about being a huge dick, screwing them out of money, destroying them socially by treating them like crap, swearing at them and starting rumors; but if you do any of that will that help anyone? hell no. Just remember that its okay to be mad, just dont let it manifest into actions, and get it all out and you will be much more at peace with everything.

My dear, please calm down!

I don't think you're crazy, a psychopath, or anything anyone would like to label you as. You are a human being, a beautiful human being! Human beings have emotions. We feel anger, we feel pain. There is a natural tendency to feel hurt and want to be rid of the problem. However, if we killed when we feel pain, an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, pretty soon the world would be blind and toothless! xD

Self-worth has a lot to do with it, my dear. Do you want to kill? Or have you already labelled yourself as someone who wants to kill? Do you feel some connection between yourself and your father? Do you believe that since your father is violent, you too must be violent? If you do, please don't think that way! What happens sometimes is that we are so afraid of wanting to do that thing, that we force ourselves to push it out of our minds, however, the more you THINK not to do something, the more you THINK about that thing! Ironic, huh? That may be the reason for your recurring thoughts.

You don't want to kill, dear, you're upset, badly upset. The fact that you feel freaked out enough to ask what is wrong with me?!? is fact enough that you are not a cynical person. You are a person of strong strong emotions, that is all. Please don't worry!

To people up there: Hey good job guys, lots of good answers! See all these nice people who want to help you =D

Well, it's not completely abnormal. Plenty of people wish they could kill other people, and plan out how to do it. It's just a way of venting your anger out. Sometimes you just want to feel the power of having taking some-ones life. It sounds crazy, but it is normal and you should be fine. The only problem is if you ACTUALLY kill some-one. Fantasising about it is OK, but don't actually do it. If you really think you are having problems see a counsellor. Asking people over the internet is probably not a good idea because you might get a lot of crap from people who don't understand.

yes, if you have severe emotional problems, and probably anger issues and control issues
i think for you, from the sounds of it, you have those and that your anger one is the one that affects you most, and repressing that only makes it worse

find a way to let i tout
put onsoem loud music, shout, scream, punch pillows, or shout at the peopel who hurt you, whatever it takes, but dont let it control you

also, if you dont already, you should probably ask your doctor to see a psychologist or psychatrist, because surprisingly talking about it does help
sometimes all you need is to get it out