Please help me cope with my loss? I have trouble sleeping at night occasionally !


Question: Please help me cope with my loss? I have trouble sleeping at night occasionally due to uncontrollable bouts of?
crying which is the result of depression. I am truly, deeply, madly in love with my ex who let's say his name his James (not his real name) dumped me on September 9th because I wouldn't have sex with him. Every other night I cry for about 30 minutes because he was my buddy-he answered his phone at all hours, he was a true gentlemen-always opening doors and treating me like a lady, he always kept my best interests in mind-he went to Cedar Point with me even though he didn't like roller coasters, and he was very special to me. I have tried countless times to move on and date other guys but no one can compete with him. He was the perfect guy for me-he was my other half, my yin to my yang. I've never felt this way about another man before. I will always love him. I don't know how to cope with Valentine's day if I don't see him. Please help me. Serious answers only because this is a very serious matter.

Answers:

awe :( I know exactly how you feel..It's very sad that he would do something like that to you especially when you were so close, but I personally feel like he just showed his true colors, if he couldn't wait for sex, he probably wouldn't have stayed forever and you don't deserve a guy like that, it took me a year to get over my ex bf, because we had such a huge bond, he was my bestfriend, but time healed my broken heart and I realized there's plenty more fish in the sea.. I'm very happy that you didn't give in to te sex, at least he left, and you can have a sense of pride, I wish I could help you more...goodluck, And I hope someone will come and sweep you off your feet, stay strong.



by loss I thought you meant death. my 16 year old brother dies two weeks ago. I am 15. Yet I move on with my life. sure I'm sad, but what will sadness do? will the crying really help? celebrate the time you had together rather then the time without. Feel gratefull that you can see him, give him a hug if you want. You have only 'lost' someone when they have left this earth.



he isnt perfect if he dumped you on the basis of sex. that's the lowest possible reason for dumping anyone, and that makes him the lowest possible reason for you to be depressed. so lighten up. :O he's an asshole who dsnt dsreve you



Quite a pathetic reason to dump someone. He seems pretty selfish, so just think about why you broke up, not all the good memories. Hopefully that'll knock some sense into you.




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