Should I turn to suicide?!


Question: Should I turn to suicide?
Ive been through a lot this year, my mum died and my sister. And everyone just laughs at me. Im not pretty and I used to be fat until I stopped eating and became anorexic. My dad died when I was younger so I have no family what so ever. At 13 years of age I live with my nana who could die any day. People constantly bully me because I have no family. And that I spend a lot of time in hospital because of anorexia. I dont know what to do but I just want to pull the trigger and die.
My nana is thinking about transfering me to a psychologist where they can help me. But they will just feed me a load of rubbish. I miss my family and I want to be with them and not on this lace we like to call Earth.
Please Help.

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you are causing your nanna allot of unnecessary stress she could end up going if you carry on. i've been that way out at times but if you kill yourself tonight what have you achieved? your only young so much could happen in the next year you do not know where you might be.



Your nana is a member of your family, right? So you do have family.

Talk to someone you can trust, like a counsellor or a teacher or a minister or whoever.

Lots of people who aren't pretty at thirteen become pretty later.

Or if you do well in school you can get a good job and make a lot of money and then you can afford to get cosmetic surgery and your face will look like whatever you want it to look like.



mindy and july you are both bitches.....and you shouldn't kill yourself i have been through a lot too everyone in my family is dying too and half of my family wont talk to my brother, mom, or me over nothing, my mom, brother and i always fight, school is stressful, but i refuse to give up because there is so many things i want to do like getting married, having kids, traveling the world etc. and i don't think you should give up either cause you only get one life and you need to live it to its fullest



NEVER!!! Don't EVER turn to suicide!! It's not the way to go. People think that their lives won't turn around because they are in a difficult time. EVERYTHING gets better with time. I'm 14, and I had a bad experience at Christmas where my best friend of 10 years decided to not be my friend anymore. I thought I wasn't going to get through it, but I did. And I'm happy again. Happiness will meet you eventually. Maybe not in the near future, but in time, you will receive happiness.



Never turn to Suicide, if you believe in God, then comitting suicide will condemn you to Hell since it is a Mortal sin, always try to look on the bright side, if they bully you just say you don't care, or tell someone, if you have any friends, talk to them. Please don't commit suicide.. there is so much in this Life that you don't want to give up seeing..



Chill and wait, eating disorders are never easy but as for your life? That will get so much better. The majority of people don't enjoy school at your age, i mean it's pretty scary especially with all you've had to deal with. But the only advice i can think of is just keep going and find something worth living for, i mean if you're gonna kill yourself then you might as well just go for life 100% before hand. Good luck and try www.samaritans.org.uk/ if you need someone to talk to



Suicide is a cowards way out. Think ahead. Study, get a good job and do something with your life and then you'll look back and think to yourself ' if I had commit suicide, I wouldn't be here today, happy and with a loving family and friends'. Visit the psychologist and see what happens. They'll do what's best for you.



my heart goes out to you what awful things to happen to you shame on the people who treat you like that but also all praise to you for hanging on in there.Maybe if they give you the right help all the terrible things in your life may do some good there is so many people out there going through similar things as you maybe if you can be a survivor you could in time help them to.I hope things will get better for you and something good will come out of bad things xx



Suicide is too final and you can't change your mind. Your nana needs you and you need her. You obviously need to see a therapist and get your thoughts and life in order. You have everything to live for, you deserve to live and be happy and healthy. Only you have control of your life.....LIVE......I wish you luck....



You never know what tomorrow will bring. You never know what new people you will meet. Sometimes the people that randomly walk into our lives, are what makes life worth living. It may also help to discover the fact that someone else needs you. I believe that we are all able to do something great. Don't give up just yet.



Suicide is a permanent action to a temporary problem. Do not turn to suicide, try and let the psychologists help you, who knows, you may find what they have to say to not be complete rubbish after all.



nooooo you should keep fighting you are now the last living member of your family you should go strong, you have you mum dad and sister watching over you wanting you to live life to its fullest be strong and be happy



No way, you are just depressed and need help for it. There is a way out of this dark place you are in.
Ask God to help you and see a therapist for the skills needed to overcome this painful period of your life.



No!!! It's not the answer. I know it probably seems very hard now but things can and will get better! Talk to a psychologist or counselor, they can help you out. There are always people out there to help you! It will get better.



no, it's never the answer. things always get better. think how much time you have in life to keep growing and becoming a beautiful strong woman. you can make it and don't let anyone bring you down.



Suicide is NOT the answer.
God loves you.
Ignor anyone who tells yyou that death is the answer.
You have your life ahead of you.
Don't resort to death.
God has a plan for you, just wait and see.



Suicide is never the option, you need to talk to someone.



keep strong, you have obviously been through alot and at a young age, maybe get councilling may help? it helped me?



K



snap out of it and do something with your life.



Turn to the lord.Pray...



Would your family want you to give up on life?



u can have a lot of good things in life so just don't commit suicide please..



dont commit suicde and dont give up on hope



no



im so sorry for ur loss:/
but no u shouldn't turn to suicide. many people go through same situations and feel the same way u do. but when ever something bad happens something good comes out of no where. if people bully u that should make u more confident because they are selfconsciouse with them selves and want to put there anger toward someone. just live everydayy with positive attitude dont let someones hatefulness towards u bring u down. i have a friend that was going through the same exact thing and know he has a daughter and a lovely wife dont get ur hopes down:)
and u r not uglyy u are very Beautifull everyone is;)
hope this helps hun.



I have just lost a friend to suicide and I can assure that it is NOT an answer. You may feel alone but there ARE people who will be devastated by this action. Your nana for example. Friends. There are people who will care for you right now that you are not even aware of. You DO have a future ahead of you. Think about the family you could have. You could make old dreams come true. I lost my dad in a bad way and I have other bad problems but i make myself feel better by doing stuff to help others. Also you should make yourself go to your doctor and tell them how you are feeling. You wont be judged or laughed at or locked up. They will help you but be honest with them. Also dont listen to narrow minded people on here or elsewhere that give you negative answers. For every bad person in the world there are many more good people who will help you work towards happiness. Your family that have passed away would want you to be strong an go on and make a life for yourself. There is so much you will miss out on if you kill yourself. Happiness and inner peace is what you need, not death. Please go to your doctor. Try life. Please. XXX



Ohh.. No... Never, never, never is suicide the right way to go.! There is always someone ready to love you. Turn to a church anywhere. Find a hospital. Go to a senior center, hospital, veteran's center, VFW, your local library can arrange for you to help kids learn to read. Find a food pantry and volunteer your time. If you have no family, MAKE one. It's amazing how we can heal while helping others. Do not give up. God is there, but you have to be open to the options you have. They could very well be he hand up that God is sending you. God Bless you Sweetheart and keep your chin up. Things WILL get better if you are faithful.

from the heart.



Please. Please. Please dont turn to suicide. About 2 years ago my best friend comitted suicide please dont put yourself in the same situation. For all those who dont seem to care imagine if you were in this situation. Things will get better in time. And your family will be looking over you. Your mum im pretty sure would love to see you as a inteligient woman you will be when you are older. And although things are hard you must always look on the bright side.
When your time is up you will eventually meet your family again but until you are ready to go then gods wish is for you to stay here.

Past



Please know you are loved. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your Nana please go the website www.twloha.com. The name of the website is To Write Love On Her Arms. There's a video I think you should watch. Please get in touch with them. They can help you find the help you need. Suicide isn't the answer. Keep your chin up, I know you are going through a hard time, but please try to stay positive.

www.twloha.com I heard of this website through the band The Sick Puppies. Jamie and the rest of the people who work at TWLOHA are awesome and have helped lots of people.



Hey girl,
Suicide is never the answer. There is things I would do and recommend you do them all:
Prey to God. Tell him you love him and your family. Ask him to take care of them. sure you miss them, but the truth is In the bible, it says God will erase your memory before you get in those shiny gates.
Tell your nana what's happening an ask her for help
and finally, go to a councilor at school or a local councilor. Tell them and they will help you.
NEVER turn to suicide because I guarantee you, if you die now, you will make everyone else close to you very devastated and they might commit suicide and that will make even more people upset.
If you die later (and by later I mean by old age) You will may have a special surprise you don't want to miss.
someone might find you and see you try to do suicide and you will be in a psycho ward. You don't want that to happen
Trust me, you will love life later, even if your still upset


Hope I helped,
Jay




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