I'm really worried about my niece, please read?!


Question: I'm really worried about my niece, please read?
Ok so my niece is 13 and ever since she was 9 she's been obsessed with sex. Her mother thinks it is because of her father because ever since my niece was a little kid her father did and still does jokingly grab her mother and touch her private parts in front of my niece. Not in an obscene way but he thinks he's being funny doing that and ever since he started my niece says she wants a guy to do that to her.

Could this possibly be why she's so obsessed with sex and guys? It's practically all she cares about and I'm really worried about her.

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That could be a reason - healthy physical affection would be holding hands, a hug, a kiss on the cheek, maybe a peck on the lips, a hand on the shoulder, or an arm around a waist. Grabbing private parts is NOT appropriate for kids to view. Its normal for kids to emulate the relationships the see in their parents, which is why its important kids see healthy interactions. Nothing disrespectful, or even borderline obscene, since this is what they will believe is ok.

But... This could also be an indication that something inappropriate was done to her and she is now fixating on sex as a result. If she shows any other signs of having been molested, you should report it and tell her mom who may be turning a blind eye.

At 13, she should be getting interested in boys. Other things should still be on her mind though, a complete fixation is worrisome and very different from the occasional day dream.

See if her mom will talk openly about it. A girl who is that old is possibly old enough (hopefully she isnt doing this though) to be performing sexual acts with others of her own free will and she could get a disease or find herself pregnant. She should be aware of what is ok and appropriate and mom and dad should guide that.



Just talk to her, it could be it but i doubt it, some people just are what they are
it could be a phase because shes young and wants to explore n since she knew about sex when she was a very young age she picked it up quicker
but i think u should really talk to her, so if she ever does have sex,hopefully not too young, than at least shell be safe
good luck <3



Have a talk with her. Tell her she's only 13, she has her whole life ahead of her. And when she's an adult and it's the right time, she will have sex, but not now



I do not think so but i am no doctor. May be get some help.



just talk to her



For some shocking reason, you seem to be minimizing the fact that her father "grab her mother and touch her private parts in front of my niece." Somehow I imagine you think this happens in every household and is healthy. It's not.

While its healthy for children to see their parents kissing, hugging, holding hands and being affectionate with each other, it is another thing to indulge in sex play in front of the kids. Little children are captive audiences to this behavior in the home and they naturally grow up to feel that this sort of behavior should be acceptable everywhere and all the time.

You should be worried about your niece. She has been shown that her "private parts" are not private at all but are to be grabbed by guys everywhere whenever they want. And the more guys who grab her, the more desirable she must be as a young woman, right?
Your niece needs to be sat down and given a little talk by the adult women in her life. She needs to learn about the privacy of her own body and the BIg Fact that sex isn't an expression of love for most adolescent guys. She has to learn how to protect herself And her own body....or be used.




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