Is it normal I want an abusive boyfriend?!


Question: Is it normal I want an abusive boyfriend?
I've always loved the thought of having a boyfriend that was bigger and stronger than me controling me and even throwing me around a bit. Is that normal?

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what drugs are you taking?



It sounds like you want someone who is domineering.

It's not normal, what is normal within relationships though everyone is different?, however many people enjoy relationships where being dominated is a part, sort of like S&M, Whips chains, being tied down, told what to do, how to dress, thrown around a bit or pinned against a wall ect...

However you have to be VERY careful with relationships like this so they do not get out of control, go to your doctor or a sexual awareness centre, or look it up online so you know exactly what you want, and how to remain safe while doing it.

Good Luck & Keep Safe

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No. That's not normal at all. Desiring somebody in a position of power is one thing, as in women attracted to authority figures or older men. But wanting to be thrown around? That's a sign that you have deeper issues you need to work out. The worst thing that could happen to you would be to get involved in an abusive relationship and not be able to get out of it, even if you want to.



No.

I always want the best for myself because I love myself.
I always feel that if people love me they will want me to be free to take care of myself and make my own decisions. They will support me and care for me.
I couldn't be saddled with a jerk of a boyfriend like that. After all, I'm not his therapist or his mother and I don't want that job.



OF CAUSE IT IS YOUR AMASICIST AND YOU LOVE TO BE TAKEN EVERYTIME IT TURNS YOU ON ITS QUITE COMMON IN WOMEN BE DOMINATED BY POWER ITS NOT NORMAL BUT IT WILL NOT SPOIL YOUR LIVE OR FUN SO FILL YOUR CUP SWEETHEART .



Noooo , talk to a counselor about this. Usually girls that seek this in a guy were sexually abused at a younger age , thus seeking someone to recreate this.... anyways good luck.



Im not sure if its normal or not but i promise after a month or 2 when you have possibley a broken arm or leg you won't be loving if so much



Help is available for this.



well girls do like the bad boys better instead of the nice boys



You must have a very low opinion of your self. Do what every it takes to make you feel better about your self.



No but Don't think you're crazy. You might think yu deserve it.



O_O..... xD lmao umm i guess. As long as he isnt hurting you??



Jesus no



not at all i think you are crazy sike ur problem bye wish u luck




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