How can I stop hating myself?!


Question: How can I stop hating myself?
I really really hate myself sometimes. Now is one of them. It is valentines day and I have no girlfriend, no prospects (looking for me or me looking for them), I am too depressed to even masturbate, I am struggling with some college work, have little money, and an undetermined future. I just hate myself and am sick of living. Im too tired from working on Chinese all day to try and kill myself and Id have to go outside in the cold by myself if I wanted to smoke some bud (as my friends are being ******* now). I hate myself so much I just hope I die in my sleep.

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I understand how you feel. I've been struggling with some things also. What I'm about to tell you is often dismissed as crazy and outdated but I guarantee 100% that if you listen to me you will never regret it and your life will change. It won't be easy but at least try it.
Today in modern society we are very self reliant. We put our trust in money, power, status, etc. However we forget that there is a part of us that is more than physical. It is spiritual. Everyone has a spirit just like everyone has a body. And like our body our spirit has to be fed. Unfortunately we have become so self reliant that we forget about this. A long time ago God created two people, Adam and Eve. Everything was perfect. There were no problems. However God gave them one rule and they broke it. This caused everything to change. This is when mankind was separated from God, who is the only one who can bring meaning to our spiritual lives. Ever since then the world has been full of problems as you and I both know. However, God knew this would happen and he had a plan. Because of the wrong things we do we cannot go to heaven when we die. But about two thousand years ago God sent Jesus Christ to this earth to die for our sins. Jesus was fully God and fully man. He lived a perfect life. And three days after he died Jesus came back to life. In doing this Jesus conquered death. He also made it possible for us to have a relationship with God. God is the source of Joy and happiness and much more. When we are not with God it is only natural for us to see no meaning in life. I'm sure you have alot of questions. Just email me at gen1.1@att.net. I hope to hear from you soon. -Kyle.



I really hate myself sometimes too. I'm starting to think it's normal.

Valentines day is a really stupid holiday, first off. It just makes single people feel like ****, and it only really benefits companies that sell chocolate and pink frilly sh*t.

Anyway, I know how it is to get sick of everything in your life, and it always passes. So, eventually, you will stop hating yourself and be able to see your good qualities if you let yourself.
If you ever feel like killing yourself, don't, that's stupid. Just make life your b*tch. If life is worth so little to you, you can really do whatever crazy thing you want to with and at least have fun.
You sound cool, so I hope you don't die in your sleep.



Well do like I did, join a dating service. I found a beautiful young woman and got married and have a 6 year old girl now. Get a career started, make sure your college studies are going to land a good job. Dont take some college that will lead to nothing (like a lot of people do). Smoking pot is not going to help with depression, will not get you a gf, or a job! matter of fact drug screenings are common place now!



Make yourself open to groups of people.



Buy a guitar




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