How to fit-in in highschool?!


Question: How to fit-in in highschool?
I'm in grade eight but I feel really behind I don't like to gossip and I don't like the same things as everyone else. I feel like a loser. Help!

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DON'T listen to half these people. I graduated highschool in may 2010. All you have to do to fit in, is be OPEN to everything. Be social and talk to people as much as possible being a freshman is kinda hard cause most seniors and juniors don't wanna hang out with you unless your a girl then they want to bang you. Don't fall for a guy quick, we are tricky ;) Don't cave under peer pressure but don't be afraid to try something new. Try not to be a teachers pet in every subject. Mainly just TALK and make friends with everyone you can. Don't judge people and just be nice... or take the desperate route and kick someones ***, sleep with everyone, do drugs, throw lots of parties, and ditch all your classes. Just have fun and be OPEN to EVERYTHING but don't do it if it really goes against your morals. Their are soo many groups you will find friends don't worry.

I was just really social, flirted with every good looking girl (single, and some that weren't ;)) I made music, was a pretty good artist, but its mainly the social part. Make sure that you have something interesting about yourself. A cool skill or hobby just something to talk about. Also be FUNNY and don't be stuck up. If your a girl you should have no problem making friends in highschool as long as you are social.. its the other girls that are mean usually but just ignore them.



And I were feeling like I am crazy but I weren't.Bah, find someone that it's not like others but different.Study your lesson ,pick up a hobbie-a sport, be busy with that and don't have problem with anyone.You are just better than many many many many of them.I were too, but in this region, the social isn't good ,we have been affected by many phenomenas of the world.But it's still a region it's normal to be like that.I love my town so much but my social isn't helping me.Someday I get out of here :D:D:D:D



Relax. You're not a loser. You're different. Right now different seems awful. But different is going to set you apart positively in so many ways. As far as gossiping, that's a childish thing to do. And when you get to college (if it's a decent one) the childish gossiping will stop. And people aren't gonna judge you about being different as much there. Relax. It gets better.

My "Different" Life



all communities are the same its like getting into the new swimming pool you start in the shallow end and you gently get deeper keeping your feet on the floor until you gain the confidence to trust and sharing your fears with others just starting brings in others and possible friends



smoke weed, **** gossip, and just don't give a ****. you be fine if you loose the i care attitude now

i have been an MRI technician for 3.5 years now



First DONT Try and change who u are thats what makes u specal I am sure ur not the only one who doesn't like to gossip second relax just be yourself u don't have to fit in with the crowd




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