What can I do about this? Please help me, im getting really depressed?!

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Having a girlfriend can't help your happiness. I think you sound like a younger man that is more advanced and wants something steady to have a normal continual life from how it sounds. I know that it's a downer not having anyone for Valentines. I've been there. It's not easy to see the love of others but instead of it making you sad you should try to be happy for them. If you arn't more open and optomistic thats not helping your overall outlook on life. Happiness is found within first. I am married and have a Valentine but he isnt even here to share it with me. My husband is a soldier and as soldiers do they leave for months up to a year or more. For my husband he barely dated and that was when he was 19 he started and met me when he turned 20. I'm his first long term girlfriend and we got along so well we married. He doesn't feel bad for waiting, he's very happy and proud and so am I. Sometimes people may not see the treasure that is there but when it's found by someone who needs it then it is alot more meaningful. My husband is my treasure, before I met him my ex was very abusive and it was hard to leave that life but now that I have I'm happy I met someone who believed in waiting. He did'nt "want" to wait to date it's just how it turned out. He got busy with sports and activities so he didn't have time in HS. After HS he signed up for the military and while he had single party days he's very happy how life turned out as am I. So please don't think this is the end or that life won't get better, because it will you just need to put your chin up and try to see the bright side. If you focus on your future than this one day in your past won't seem so bad. Yes you will think back but when you do meet the person you were meant to be with it's more important you are ready to have a life with them. Life gets better as you move forward. You know in HS the guys I had a crush on did'nt seem to look twice at me or even they were just friends. It isn't until later that you see that someone had a crush on you. The best thing to do is try to get an activity or do something today. Maybe a friend who doesnt have a girlfriend/boyfriend woud want to hang out and watch a movie? You could always plan a YOU afternoon where you make plans for you to do/watch/eat(cook something for yourself) that is for you. It may not seem great but it is something to try, even if you sit on pogo or play a game all afternoon. Do something you would enjoy. If you dwell on the sadness for yourself rather than be happy for others it is a downer. If you also are still in HS than that is a small stepping stone in life after all couples break up and make up and people move on. You have love to give which is wonderful, most guys don't want to give love they want to well you know. I think that some girl or women whoever she is when you meet her will be very lucky to have someone that wants so much to love on her. If you spoil the girls with the love you want to give than there are girls missing out on what you have to offer. So keep your head up and be happy that you can feel so strongly. After all i'm sure there are millions other guys and girls in the world of all shapes/sizes colors that feel just as you do now so you are not alone. I think you have a future to look forward to.

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