how do i deal with this person who won't leave me alone!!?!? is she like ps!
Question: How do i deal with this person who won't leave me alone!!?!? is she like psychotic?!!?!?!?!?!?
im senior in h.s..and at the beginning of the term, i had a locker to a freshman "kate"..i was just trying to be friendly to her and we talked and stuff..later on Kate added me on fb and i confirmed..kate has a physical diability but i didn't know what it was until later...she told me that she had Asperger's syndrome, and b/c of this, no one wanted to be her friend..i felt bad for her so sometimes i let her hang out with my friends, and once we went out to a cofee shop after school..i was just trying to be nice...
well being nice and civil got me no where but into trouble..it was one of the worst things i ever did, no offense intended..long story short, at first it was okay but then kate started to lie about BIG things..like for example that her mom died, and that this girl at school was bullying her and threatening to kill her
i told the principal and asked her what i should do..i later found out that all of that was NOT true at all! i was pissed and angry that she lied to me (i told her in the beginning when she asked if we could be friends to never ever lie to me b/c i had just gotten out of 3 really bad friendships where people i thought was close to lied to me) so i cut off all contact, deleted her off of fb, stopped talking to her, etc
now its been a while but she like almost stalks me! like example, i was once in my history class, she passed by me and saw me sitting down..the next day although her class was on the first floor (mine was on the third) and it was 1 min before you had to be in class, she literally stood outside the door! i am not dumb, i know that she knows no other seniors either..she also asked another gr 9 whom i knew from elementary school to go on my fb where my school schedule was posted to give it to her...she also asked this gr 9 questions about me,.stalkerish stuff like that...
she'll also always look at me in the halls and if she sees me around the corner she'll turn back but then peek again and again and quite frankly it's really p****** me off now...
what should i do??!?
thanks! :)
Answers:
I think you should tell the principal of the school...about the standing outside the door thing, that is. About the turning back and looking at you again and again, I think you should probably tell her parents or, failing that, call the police.
I would let the principle and your teachers know what is happening they can keep an eye out too maybe move her on her way maybe she's lonely and because you befriended her shes become clingy it is un-nerving for see if the can talk to her and make her realise what she is doing if you do talk to her have an adult with you a t least f she reacts badly or gets really upset they can deal with her so its not down to you.Hope it all works out ok.