Is it normal that im jealous of my therapists husband??.......................?!


Question: Is it normal that im jealous of my therapists husband??.....................…
I just saw my therapist earlier and she told me shes married with kids and i immediatly got jealous of her husband. I think hes lucky to have her. I also told her im bisexual and have feelings for her. I cant stop thinking about how awesome it would be if we could go on a date together. Im 17 years old gurl if that matters. What can i do to overcome these feeling? Its driving me crazy!!!!!

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Discuss this with your therapist, over time. This is not uncommon and she should be accepting of such discussions. It is a chance to work through some of your issues with her. Since you know you will never have a dating relationship with her, you're safe to talk about these feelings.



You think your life is more important than it is. If you want to increase your value be free of yourself and start thinking about the feelings of others, for example, think how your therapist's husband might feel about your ridiculous extreme introverted jealousy. He is doing his part but you are missing your opportunities to care about anything but yourself. Police your thoughts as they happen and adjust - it's your duty and responsibility.



I understand you so much.

I have suicidal tendencies too and have to see a (female) psychologist each week. The problem is that I love her personality so much. I know she has a boyfriend, and I feel very jealous of him. If only I could have a girl like that in my life... :(

The only thing you can do is to change therapist. However, considering you're a suicidal, this may not be a good idea if you developed a good chemistry with your current therapist.

It's difficult to answer your question.



OH MY GOD! I FELT THE SAME WAY! I never thought anyone else would feel that way! I'm a girl, too. It's not because I'm bisexual though. It's just because she is so amazing and her personailty is great and she listens when nobody else does. I feel crazy because I cry at the thought of never seeing her again. I told her I loved her like a mom. So don't worry-- you're not alone! People tell me i'm obsessed with my counselor. Truth is, I just wish she was my mom. I love my mom, but my therapist just understands me so well and she seems to really care!

I know EXACTLY what you're going through



Stop going to her? I think you might need to sort some things out if your name is Suicidal Girl



You crack me up...I think it OK




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