I dont know how to get away from him, I hate him, he makes me want to just kill !


Question: I dont know how to get away from him, I hate him, he makes me want to just kill myself..?
I am a 27 yr old female who is in an abusive relationship. It is mainly verbal abuse I am told on a daily basis that I am a f***ing b**ch, that I am fat, that I am ugly, that I am stupid, that I am lazy, I am screamed these things until I break down into tears. I am forced to have sex when I dont want to sometimes, I feel like **** because my kids listen to him say these things to me. I feel like **** when they see there father hit me, and then I have to fight back to get him off me. I dont know why it is hard to leave it just is. I used to be the type of person who thought that if you let a man treat you that way then you deserved it, or liked it. I now know that this is wrong, but I dont know how to leave this is all I ve known ever. for the last 10 years. This is what love is suposed to be like in my eyes its all Ive ever seen, So if someone who has been or knows someone who has been in my situation could just lend me some advice on how the heck to get out I swear I will owe you my life literally. I feel so worthless, and lazy and scared. I dont have anywhere to go. I just need to know how Im suposed to leave and stay alive because I think he would really hunt me down and kill me.

Answers:

The first thing u need to know is that this is not your fault what so ever and no one, listen to this, no one should have to be treated this way. I know you're scared and u have all right to be but know their are people who can and will help u. What u need to do is try to leave while he is gone and go to the nearest police station to tell them what has been going on. They should help you to get him behind bars where he belongs and will help you get the help u deserve to get back on your feet. No man, i don't care if he the most powerful man on earth, should ever hit a woman no matter what she has done. Men who hit women are nothing but men who feel that they have to have control over women. You are a strong woman under all that fear and u deserve to be treated as such. I know you're afraid but for u and ur kids, u have to get out of that environment as soon as u can. God is with u no matter where u are, just put ur trust in him and he'll help u find that courage. I pray for u now and hope this message will help u. Be safe and blessed.



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First and foremost, you must get out of this relationship. It needs to be over under any human condition possible. There are safe houses for battered and abused women in just about every community in America. Search for help through your local rape crisis center, they can assist you with great support and direction. Please protect yourself. Living under these conditions will only subject your children to growing up and acting just like your partner. Don't ever believe that you are less than any other 28 year old women. You have been blessed with God given rights. One of them is to find your inner strength and get help. Kick this abuser to the curb, get a restraining order or call the police and press charges. Lay down the law. You are fighting for your life, your children's lives, their rights to grow up "normally" and most of all your dignity, and self consciousness.




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