Question:
So I think im Traumatized?
Well i used to leave at Austin but then i moved to a different city because my mom wanted a change. well moving here and leaving all my friends behind was really difficult but when i start going to school at my new state i was being picked on by my whole class . But eventually i made a friend and me and him where really close and then he just start trying to pick fights with me about everything saying i was stupid, gay, too skinny, my nose was to big. He just did everything he could to make me feel bad and too this day i still dont know why. Me and him got into two fist fights and he still didnt stop picking on me. so i finally told my parents but their was nothing they could really do because i knew if they went to the school it would make things worse! when that horrible school year was over people gradually stoped harassing me, but still to this day every time i think about what happened i get incredibly sad, mad, and scarred at the same time ( this all happened 4 years ago ). And i feel like i don't connect with people anymore and i don't care to be around people. Also ive been having health problems the doctors say its due to stress. what do you guys think is wrong with me?
Answers:
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he isn't your friend. ditch him. and don't believe a word that he says. you are beautiful, don't let a person like him tell you otherwise! but i am so happy for you that people have stopped harassing you. yes, problems like these, especially if they happen when we are little, can tramutize us. but to be serious, i personally don't think that there is anything wrong with you. you just didn't like what happened to you, and who would? but you're doing fine coping, and everything will turn out alright. and why not be around people? they can be your friends. you can talk to them, tell thing problems, and have fun :) but ultimately, that is your choice. there is nothing wrong with you... all i see is a bit of low self confidence. boost your self confidence! you are beautiful, and you are loved. :)