I really feel like **** (Depression)?!


Question: I really feel like **** (Depression)?
I was just told by 5 people on here I was disgusting, ugly etc and I am crying now and I am actually have become instantly depressed. Now I REALLY don't want to go to high school I want to stay home schooled its that bad:/

I have had people call me hot and cute and I knew it was not true:(
How can I get over it?
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P.S my depression comes on suddenly and I become depressed for a few days.

I have had a guy say I look like a man I went to the bathroom and cried he was the first guy to ever call me a guy:(

Answers:

this doesnt feel right and im confused i looked at your pics but i thought i was gona see some one ugly i got a second opinion from my brother and my friend here they say your hot and i agree with them you dont look ugly i would love to go out with you if i was lucky enough for you to say yes to me if you want to talk about your problems you can email me if you want



Sweetheart, you're not. You're totally cute. However, it's the internet. Some people are mean, others act mean if they think you're fishing for compliments. They say hurtful crap because they can and they get away with it. Don't let yahoo answer's trolls dictate how you see yourself. That's silly.

Try and distract yourself and go do ANYTHING else. You can't listen to them, ok? (((((hugs)))))



no one is ugly from face.it is the heart that makes people ugly.whoever said you ugly do not listen to them.always listen to your heart.when you stand in front of the mirror do you feel ugly(ask it to yourself.if the answer is no)then there is nothing to cry about.you should concentrate on your work what you do.there are many ugly people in the world who are honoured by the world.otherwise join this site where you can get much help from people.
http://www.mysticboard.com/

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take your picture off where ever u have put it ....
tell the worth less trash to look in their own mirrors for all the imperfections to their character and looks ...

get yourself doing something useful for people on a daily basis




This is the tool The value of giving Putting something or some service into society is one of the most transforming tools with which we all benefit . The value of it is much higher than we can possibly know and it should be included as part of everyone’s health program. The giver may ask how will helping others help my health and me! That is a very good question, which is very worthy of a serious amount of thought. This touches on the concept which is called karma .

For if one truly wants to live with the great allies of Health, wealth, happiness, Love and all those effects which one values one should really understand this concept. It is the only thing, which explains the apparent randomness of the effects, which come upon people.

Effects are all aspects of health, Wealth, Richness, [note these two are separate] Happiness etc.What is karma? Put simply it is the law of cause and effect. Or put as another way as you sow so shall you reap, or what goes around comes around. What do we mean by sowing? Simply every action or deed you do causes an effect and every thought causes an effect.

So if you have sown good deeds as in helping others, being of service, giving love and Kindness for lengthy periods of time you can expect to reap those seeds. Alternatively if we have sown other deeds and thoughts of a hurtful nature we can expect problems of one nature or another to beset us. Edgar Cayce frequently mentioned in treating disease that we were working against karma and frequently told people that they would get well faster by helping others.

Ah you may say why is it that babies are sometimes born with so many impediments; they have not sown wrongful acts.Yes they have not in this lifetime but what about their previous lives as in reincarnation. You may not wish to go into this subject at this time but there are millions of references to it, some in the bible and a lot of eastern religions, some people can actually remember their past lives.

There is now even past life regression therapy used in hypnosis to treat phobias, which are not connected with this lifetime.
now listen to this next concept really carefully
If we are unwell and by implication therefore suffering from past seeds sown it follows therefore one of the fastest ways to get well is to incorporate into your treatment plan service or giving to somebody as often as you can .

Ask for opportunities to be of service .I have proved this concept on a daily basis and feel that this concept is so important in all types of healing and to achieve other effects like having friends ,enriching experiences, money and other effect which we all need.

Just a few examples of how we can be of service –giving Sharing our being, our wealth, sending our thoughts, giving to charity, sharing a joke, uplifting someone, giving listening time, giving healing, giving labour, giving love, giving entertainment, giving food, giving information and a million more ways.
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.Virtually every effect you can name .
All is seen ,all is heard, all is felt.

The wise among you will take the attitude of discovering the areas of service you have to make amends on before effects of ill health reach you whether it be cancer, Parkinson’s blindness or what have you.

So I strongly advise that you engage in some kind of voluntary work and I believe that virtually everyone should be engaged in some kind of healing practice for others preferably on a daily basis.

how to discover this?Well I suggest you pray to be shown or ask the universe to reveal it to you. reveal the areas which are most suited to serviceJust going along in your life and living for self and not bothering until problems come can be very painful.

It is almost like asking for trouble to come

Get the spiritual healing /reiki in place asap

And remember this

Voluntary work for you is a very good idea especially when u consider this principle

,.all our healing and happiness - yours and mine is linked right alongside our efforts and contribution to others.in direct proportion to the help we give others

ie your healing comes with helping others =so if people are doing very little in helping others ---they suffer more and longer...and if they are doing a lot they get well faster...

.so now you know what to do ,,and like a lot of us are already doing being of service.

Do not even dream of healing to come to you if you are doing wrongful acts , wrongful words , wrongful thoughts. All you are doing is making more of a burden for yourself

1 hour a day will make a difference to you and to others



People on here are stupid and bored that's why they do that, because they think It's funny. When people say mean things hit them right back. When that guy said you looked like a man you should have said maybe I am a man, wanna be my *****? I'm sure you aren't ugly you just need some confidence. And if people are telling you you are cute, why don't you listen to that? Why are you only believing what mean people are sayin?? Would you believe a mean guy or a nice guy if they both told you that you had pretty hair? Probably the nice guy...you would probably assume that the mean guy was just talkin smack on you And going to laugh about it with his friends later right? So believe it when people tell you you are cute.



***** them all! they ain't your mates! Only your best of friends opinion counts! I hate it when bastardds judge people of their appearences with out looking inside! I have people call me ugly i mean I have freckles, my eyes are pronounced like "snakes" and i have curves. (and curves aint a good thing in my school >:{ ) but you know what, In class one time they were all (refering to the prissy little stuck up chic's down the back) making fun of me behind my back saying "god, look at her hair ( i have blondish redish hair and everyone else in the school has brown hair and black hair and it's surposed to be the new blond, but i dont really care what my hair looks like around those girls.) and saying stuff about my freckles and eyes, then i finally had enough of their moral blabbling and stood up, turned around at the girls and yelled "You know what, (I'm not being mean to nayone out here that looks like this but basically everyone at my school looks like this.) If i had black hair, brown eyes, thin twanky thighs and boobs. If i had a wicked little smile on, if i wore my hair exacly the same as you guys. What do you know, I'm nothing fuqing like you! Your all so boring with your little pricck hair bows and clips. I can't tell any of you apart. Im glad im different im glad im ME. not a clone of some b**ch" and wlaked out of the class room, signed out of school, went home and laughed my head off.

People calling you ugly or you look like a guy, tell them to shut up. They have no right to tell you, you look weird or defferent, they looks the same as everyone else who told you that before. Just accept that people will still object you "image" and tell you, you look different, but just smile and say- hey, I should be glad i dont look like them, i should be glad i dont act, talk or wearing anything like them. different is good. You stand out, and thats what boys (or if a guy is reading this lolz, or if your gay but thats beside the point haha <D) look for in people, if they dont then they are blind and boring. Girls hate boring guys obviously. So why (guys) go look for a chic that looks like everyone else, acts like them and brings other people down. Why not teach them a lesson and say, "whatever." and go look for a funny, different and a fun person to be around girl. I mean emos all say they are different, but not really emo doesnt have to dress up all flashy and tlak like a girl. he can just wear a pear of denium jeans and a T-shirt, have normal hair and everyting. but the thing inside his or her heart is pain, neglectance or resistance. They cut them selves because of the pain they feel, their beloved bf/gf left them or died or something like that. they're speacial some one in the family died. In their minds they think that pain can never leave and will always be there. But thats not true, people will always accept you no matter how you look, how you act. You deserve to be in this world, you have earned your place, anyone who trys dragging you out of place is just selfish and struggles to find their place in this world because their not looking hard enough.

Dont be depressed, no matter where you are, you are loved for who you are. Never forget that. Now bring back that smile that a lot of people are missing. <3 (i never seen you smile but if i did *as everyone's smile is beautiful* i would miss it too :[
Be happy haha! Stand tall and be confident. No one could take that away from you. <D

haha, i just had the urge to type :D



Oh my god really, those pics of you look great I would date you if I knew you and Im not just saying that believe me if you were ugly I wouldnt say you look great.

If I die today one thing I will die knowing FOR SURE is that people are ****holes and douchebags, get over it there are people with real problems in high school you look normal and everything go make some friends and have a good teenage life.

Seriously if youre gonna go hide under a rock because some ****hole said something you didnt like you might as well call it quits right now and be a hermit.

I act like an asshole sometimes and I say things that I don't fully mean to hurt peoples feelings so I know.

The other day I walked in to my friends house and saw his sister and I said "God DAMN what happened to you?!? Its called Makeup go try some"

She looked good to me I only said that because.... Im still not exactly sure why I said that I guess I was just being a dick but thats what Im trying to tell you.



well for the sake of ur self confidence you are attractive. && some fun facts about ur situation is if your getting no attention/hate/love than obviously your nothing important. However, should u be getting any type of attention weather it be hate or love etc then theres something about you that others want and are trying to find an angel that keeps you down.

The best thing to do about criticism is to just laugh about it, keep a sense of humor. As someones hating on you just say to urself "F*** it, it is wat it is". Let em hate, and like i said before, if their hating you then obviously u got something they dont.




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