feeling to commit suicide... help...?!

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SUICIDE IS A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM.

There' absolutely no need for suicide. I get bullied a hell of a lot. Loads. I used to take it serious, and I had counselling and used to self harm, but I over came it by lying on my bed, plugging in the earphones and turning up the volume. I know it sound stupid, but it helped me ALOT. Seriously, please don't kill yourself. Society sucks, but together we can all overcome this. Everyone answering this, like me, and of course (even though you don't think it) some of your friends and parents, don't want you to die. Strangers are friends you haven't met yet, and friends are relatives you make for your self. So, if you think hard enough we are all on your side. I think I speak for everyone when I say we value you as a human, and you shouldn't end your life because of mindless words.

Years of councelling after years of bullying xx

Many people are bullied, but the best thing to do is ignore it. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. The choices we make in life are what make us who we are, so make the right choices. Don't commit suicide, no matter how much pain you're in. Things may feel unbearable, but they're not. I don't think you're emotionless, as you are clearly feeling something right now. I suffer from depression also, and although It can be very hard at times, It's something I've learnt to deal with. I am still only young, so have hope that I will have a happy life. Too many people give up because of bullies, but it's not worth it. In the end, that makes the bullied win. I often feel hatred on society, but that gets me no where. Understand that there are good people, as well as bad. It's worth staying alive for the good people though. Don't give up yet. Talking will help! I promise! Don't run away either, as that will not help.

Hi Roderik..what you need to do is take time for yourself sit down and ask what to YOU want out of life?..its your life and you got to live it for you and remember you will never please everyone and that is not your job..try always to do what is right for yourself and in society be your own man and be mature enough to accept your mistakes..that is the only way you will grow and learn to be respectful and admired adult..stuff em all its what you think and do that counts in your life dont live it for anyone but you..good luck believe and things will change even if it means changing your friends?..

Remember this "Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem."
You should see a therapist. It will help. Must people who attempt suicide
later say they were glad they failed at it, because the problem eventually
went away. Life is difficult. What ever you're facing now will pass.
You are not emotionless if you are depressed and crying. To be emotionless
is to be cold, like a stone, no emotion. You wouldn't have written if you
were. Hang in there. It will get better.

Hey brother
Believe me, u do not want to do that! This time in your life will pass and things will get better dude! I would not normally advise anyone to do this but... the next time someone talks down to u at school in or out of class HIT them as HARD as U can in the face and do not STOP til there laying on the ground! Anmd even if they do get the better of u, if? Everyone will respect u for standing up for your self! Dude its fine to cry it helps relieve stress, but do not do it in front of people, like at school! If u need a friend to talk to, I am 4 u brother....montedreams2@yahoo.com
Stop worrying about everything in a few yrs u will be in college and its a lot better there(: believe me

At this point in your life it is hard to imagine that "this too shall pass". We all go through various stages in life full of ups and downs. Some people do have it worse than others as you are feeling now. Your character is being built for better or for worse everyday day you are here on earth. The hard knocks sometimes create the best in us. Be strong! Persevere! You will beat this!

Suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem. Things will get better if you hang in there. Think about your options in life and the things you have to look foward to in the future. suicide is NOT an option :)

at one point in our lives we are ALL hated. but here your not. i value you as a person and dont want you to give in and give up.

hang in there

smoke weed..dont kill your self im sure your like a teenager or something your life is not over thigs will get better just wait..im sure ((:

my head..

just print the question and give it to your parents

Hi Roderik!

There are many more options for you besides suicide or running away! Please don't give up! By talking to your parents it will give you a sense of relief and the feeling that you have support. They love you and want to help you! They also need to know about your suicidal thoughts.

It's also very possible that the situation with your friends is not as bad as it seems and it will calm down in a few days. All you can do is apologize to the person who said you talked about him. Even if it is not true and you did nothing, tell them that you are sorry but in all honesty you did not say anything about him having a girlfriend, and that is was all a misunderstanding. It may also be a good idea to speak with your school counselor. Bullying and teasing should not be tolerated at school.

It can be very confusing to have suicidal thoughts and to feel depressed. Please consider reaching out to our Hotline by phone or through e-mail. We also have a website for teens: www.yourlifeyourvoice.org From our website you can chat with a counselor Mon-thru-Thurs evenings from 8pm-11pm Central Time. Our counselors are understanding and caring and will do what they can to help you.

Take care and stay safe. Hope to hear from you soon!

Counselor, CJ
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
www.yourlifeyourvoice.org
hotline@boystown.org

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