How can I stop feeling so depressed over this girl because i love her but she ma!


Question: How can I stop feeling so depressed over this girl because i love her but she may not love me too?
I love this girl and for the last couple of days I haven't been feeling good because I know she may not love me too. I have strong feelings for this girl and I fear that if i tell her how I feel I will lose her as a friend since we have only known each other for a few months. I mean she is great at math and is taking calculus at The University of California at Irvine and I suck at math, I can only do basic math but no algebra or anything. I have a documented learning disability. I would love her for to be my girlfriend and maybe one day my wife in the future but it seems like none of that is going to happen. I know she might pick someone else as she and I are vietnamese and I know vietnamese girls in the U.S go for guys who are good in math and are successful in college and life. I only have a job certification and she is soon going to have a college degree. How can I stop feeling so depressed ?? Is there anything I can do to feel better ???

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You're thinking about your feelings so analytically. You like this girl. She might not like you. All the math stuff? That's irrelevant to how two people feel about each other.

If this girl is a good friend, then if you tell her how you feel it won't ruin your friendship. If it does your relationship was unsteady in the first place.

If you DON'T tell her, you'll continue to be depressed about it. Get it over with. Talk to her. Maybe the best will happen, and something will happen between you two. If it doesn't? You can start to move on. You're going to continue to drive yourself crazy about her if you never just do it.

Also, if you keep biting your tongue and not telling her she may find someone else, and you'll have missed your chance. Good luck forgiving yourself for that.

So call her up, tell her you need to have a serious conversation with her. Have an idea of what you're going to say ahead of time. Be honest, and tell her that if she's not interested then it's okay and whatever happens you don't want to lose your friendship with her. If she says yes, the congrats! If she says no then at least you'll know and you can go on with your life.


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