How to feel like I'm worth something?!

from experience these pretty glam girls you sometimes are lie that because they are hiding other things,at the end of the day we grow pld,get wrinkles etc when we are older we are all the same.I had a friend who was glamourous ,pretty tall a model would have been jeolous her make up was always perfect mine always looked as if a child had put it on and yet this friend unbeknown to all was bulimic after 9 years of it most of her teth have fallen out she has oesteoporosis may never have children and many other problems to see her as she was she could have been that girl on the bus.I always look at it the more make up ,glam clothes etc the more to hide without make up you are open people can see who you really are if youve got good legs make the most my legs will always stay well hidden ! your hair will grow see if theres something with your english you could do poems,stories put what you worry about down on paper .Your boyfriend is with you not any of those others and i bet without all the make up those girls don't look anywhere near as good a shock for their boyfriends when they first see them without makeup! it is difficult i know but if you ignore those particular girls ad have a really good look around most people are plainer feel good you dont spend wasted hours of you life putting on make up and having to check it all day long.no one is perfect but im sure you good things outway any bad.

I don't know what grade your in but hair grows back out, most young guys have wondering eyes and you're right about the makeup. Some girls NEED makeup others just some. The real lookers look good without it! God Made only one of you and if your boyfriend doesn't make you think that you are everything to him then maybe you aren't OR maybe he isn't really ready to settle down just yet.

right on a mirror in lipstick i am beautiful

Is this feeling recent, due to your hair cut, or have you been feeling this way for a while? Your hair will grow back, maybe you should get a wig in the meantime if it really bothers you, assuming that this is the main issue.

I doubt you are ugly or not beautiful. You really shouldn't compare yourself to other people like that. Everybody is different and sometimes people just pick on themselves too much thinking they're not good enough, and they don't realize that other people actually see them in a better light than they think. Maybe you should try talking to your mom or someone you really trust, who is understanding, about this. Sometimes talking to people about concerns helps you separate rational thoughts from irrational ones and can help you realize when you are obsessing or focusing too much on the wrong things.

Being good at English/writing/literature classes is a lovely gift to have. No one is good at everything, so don't sweat it. Some people don't even know what they are good at yet. Focus on your strengths (try writing poetry, stories, or find some other hobby you enjoy and are good at) and do your best on the things that you aren't good at but have to do anyway, like math.

dont ever think your NOT beautiful. i know, sounds corny but everyones beautiful. no matter what other people say. confidence is a big way to have good self-esteem. do good things for people, stop worrying about what other people think of or about you. you have a boyfriend, and some people dont, so it shoud tell you something. if its really bothering you that he looks at the girl like that, than talk to him about it, he should understand. & well, look up cute ways to wear your hair when its short on google. put a little bit of mascara or eyelinner on every once inna while. just what ever you do, have respect for yourself & dont think your NOT pretty.

hope i helped.

i used to feel the same way a few years agoo.

If your teeth are crooked get braces if it will make you feel better. Braces don't look bad on most people. If your good at English try to get even better and join activities that have to do with English. Tell your boyfriend you think you're growing apart and ask him if he's interested in someone else. You might have to breakup. If he has his eye on someone else he's not worth being with. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. What's inside really counts; you've probably heard that a lot but the most loved people I know aren't very pretty on the outside, but no one pays attention to that.

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