Question:
What am I supposed to do?
I feel empty, and useless. and in the last eight-ten years nothing has changed, I have never kept a job for more than three months, the only time I fell that I am valued and important is when I am with someone, I feel like being with someone is my reason to live, and work, and be outgoing, and not having that the last three years, I have turned into the glass is half empty type of person. I don't have the ambition to go out and find a job, or go out on the weekends and try to make friends, I have been in Alabama for three years now and Have yet to make one friend. I sit on the couch day after day, with the televison on, but not really watching it. basically just sitting here staring at it waiting on time to pass me by! I just dont know what to do anymore, But I can not keep going on like this. I need to find a way to get thru this and start building a life for myself and my kids, even though the fact that I am now 25 and still have nothing, not a wife, nor a house, nor a decent car I feel like I am pretty much to the point where I am not going to be where I wanted to be in life by now in another ten yrs! Feel like because I have failed for the last ten yrs, thats what is going to happen with the next fifty! I dont know, I am just so sick of feeling and thinking like this. It hurts. it physically and mentally hurts!
Answers:
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Hello Joseph S ,
Actually, I can guess that your real problem is your helplessness and lack of self - confidence .
I am sorry , but this is a very busy and harsh world my friend , if you just can't figure out the suitable means to build a life of your own , you won't get anywhere and you'll be sitting in front of the TV for days and days with nothing accomplished .
You have everything to start a good life , you have your youth and health , so why are you complaining ?
You said that you have no wife , well lots of young people do not , but you'll find your love one day , you're still young. About having no home , don't you have a family or a friend to share a place together ?
Don't think in a negative way , think positively and tell yourself that you CAN do this .
Look for a job even if it is a small one , just start something and remember that life is too short to spend it complaining .
Take care.