Why do good things happen to bad people?!


Question: Why do good things happen to bad people?
Example : I'm 13. A virgin, in 8th grade. Average grades. There are 3 girls in my class. (13,14,and 15) they're all the typical stuck up snotty rich kids and they all have boyfriends. They've announced that they have had sex with them and their grades are just HORRIBLE. Me, sitting here, with companionless (for 13 years.) have never had a boyfriend, my family doesn't really like me (because they think I'm a cry baby, but hey, wouldn't you start feeling depressed too?) , and I vowed never to have under aged sex. Yet, all these bad things are happening to the good girl* and the good things happening to the bad girls*. So, I'm guessing I have to follow in the foot steps of the other girls for good things to happen? I just dont get this. Help... please.

Answers:

Absolutely not! You keep following your own conscience. oftentimes it looks like 'bad' people get away with murder--have nice things, have a BF, etc.
But have you ever heard the expression 'karma is a *****'? And 'what goes around, comes around?"

These 13 yr old girls are bragging that they are having sex? LOL Well sooner or later one or more will have infections, get pregnant, etc--and possibly abortions.
You don't need any of that drama! their lives could change in an instant by their reckless behavior.
these boyfriends may be using them and definitely disrespecting them.
Don't envy them! it may appear that they have a great homelife, etc--but you never know what goes on behind closed doors. And their grades are 'horrible'? LOL again.
They won't get far in life with bad grades! pregnant and failing school is no way to get ahead in life!
Hold your head high, and stop comparing yourself to these other girls.
I applaud your decision to be responsible about sex. Respect your body and you will be glad that you did. Realize that you have the power to do anything in life--and someday, some special guy will appreciate all the wonderful things you are--and will respect you! Don't sell yourself short.
You are a unique, special person and your opinions and feelings count--they are important--and so are you!



Because in our society, the bigger deal you make out of something, the more attention you get. And the more attention you get, the better things happen to you.

So just be happy you're a 'good girl' and laugh at the bad ones who have to yell and scream just to get their 'blessings.'

It's like standing in a crowded room and speaking softly. No one is going to hear. But if you scream, then they're going to listen.



In my opinion good things aren't happening to them. It sounds to me like they are being used by boys at a young age and are doing terrible in school. Yeah they may be having fun but they are ruining their future's. Just keep plugging away at school and work on being more lively. Don't dwell on these types of unimportant things, think happy thoughts and focus on the good things in your life. Don't worry it will all get better with time :)



Just do what you think is right for you ,don`t make losers an idol for you .



These "bad" things are what makes us stronger and gives us experience for life. If you can't experience pain, then how can you learn to cope with a more difficult problem?



Irony



God is Evil.
Or he's just a prick!




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