How can u let someone go ...... and become detached from them...?!

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It is normal. It's hard for people to accept the fact the person has rejected them & doesn't care for them because they try to convince themselves that the person is going thru a phase and will be with them as soon as possible. Or its just hard for them to accept that the person who was in their life just left. I suggest deleting their phone number, anything else which connects you two like Facebook, email, etc. The less you know about their life, the less you care. If your constantly looking at their Facebook and knowing who they talk to and flirting with, its only going to hurt you. Eventually as time passes you will realize that theres no point in looking at their page or whatever and you lost feelings.

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Ignore them in every kinda way and do your own thing as an indepented girl, go shopping or do your favorite things with your girlfriends to keep your mind off that person who is hurting you an go back to the way you did things before that person was in your life.
Unless you think that person will change an stop hurting you in ways you don't like. Take a chance an make things better for the both of you.
Explain to that person why its not right to be hurting you, it's not cool. Explain to them how you feel about it and don't like it at all an you just want to make things OK between you an that person.