Please help me, school is seriously ruining my mental health and l don't th!


Question: Please help me, school is seriously ruining my mental health and l don't think l can last?
This is second school l transferred and its even worse than my first one. l am still ignored, disliked, and have no friends. After realizing people in highschool are cruel l decide not to be nice anymore and now l gave a bad vibe to people and even some teachers l sense that l can intimidate people but l dont care anymore. l had enough of being hated on and treated so badly. l am tired of over obsessing my appearance because it seems a lot of people dont like me because of it and its true people tell me l am ugly and to stay away from them. and l can't lie IT HURTS so damn much. it feels the like same the pain as being stabbed in the heart l dont why words can be so hurtful like that. l find it so hard to go, l have to be absent at least twice a week and lm ashamed. things got even worse when l had a seat change so now l sit in front of these kids who just stare at me like lm another creature from another planet, they are always glaring at me especially whenever l get up to get something from the teacher and now the class terrifies me now l am finding every way to skip as much as possible and even to be absent a whole day because its so hurtful l dont even feel human in that place. l cant even pay attention in class because l feel eye boring into me l feel like a target ready to get shot any mintue. l am now starting to feel very angry at everyone, yesterday there was an incident where l actually almost stabbed a kid in the neck with my pencil because when l was finding my seat this one rude boy said to me "stay away from me ugly b*tch" he said it so loud and some people laughed, l was hurt and angry and l had to take so much effort to not kill him.

l now have developed a lot of anger and anxiety issues because of school. so many cruel kids, l am too embarrassed to show my face tomorrow in class especially with that guy said to me l feel so worthless and l cant carry on school any longer. lm going to do online school maybe next year l have 4 months left and lm terrified l hate walking the hallways and facing glares, l cry so much please help me lm so scared to step into that classroom again l am unwanted there and l just make everyone feel uncomfortable. l just wanted to be treated normal like a human not mud. l feel like even dropping out just desperate to escape, l cant even look in the mirror lm too ashamed l feel dead, please help me l dont know what to do, l dont how to survive the next few months and even tommorow what should l do? can l be excused for classes somehow as fast as possible? ignoring them and trying not to let them get to me wont work l just want to be away and educated and be calm in my own home, but its hard to do so. lm a 16yr girl btw

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Come to jesus. He made you beautiful. I know it. Tell him all your problems and ask him to come into your heart. You will feel as if a weight has been lifted from your back, seriosly! Don't let other people ruin your self esteem! Ask your parents to transfer and be a nice kid. Smiling helps you make friends. And when people laugh at you, laugh with them, they will see that you don't care and will stop. STAY BEUTIFUL!!!!!

I want to be your friend. What's your facebook email? Btw, I'm a teen girl too :)



home school.



Refocus.

Right now you are focusing solely on yourself and you are drowning in your own self pity and loathing. Once you change your focus, you will forget about yourself.

Do some volunteer work. If you are helping someone else, you make them feel better and you will feel better too.

I did not read your whole self-centered rant, but I have seen enough of these to know what your are complaining about. Just calm down, and make a new plan.



:O i dont know what to say especislly beacause im social just as long as you stay true to yourself it dosent matter what they say or do in the long run you make your own future not them i know how you feel i have experiencex it but i met people qlong the way who helped me be myself it began with teachers than i made new friends talk to your teachers parents or counslers im sure they will know what to do

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Have you talked to your parents about it? If not, please do so.
Maybe they'll understand and let you drop school for those 4 months. Home schooling is better, though.
You should seek for a psychologist too, you're going to end up with a baaad depression that way.
I'm really, really sorry you have to go through this ): best luck to you ?



first you should relax , then concentrate on somthing



Ignore the comments that are telling you that you're being selfish about your situation. That's like saying it's wrong for you to have feelings, and it most certainly is not.

I would first advise bringing the matter up with your parents or guardians. Are they aware of the degree of suffering you endure during school? Homeschooling could definitely be an option if they're willing to take those measures.

In terms of the current situation at school: Have you noticed anyone at all--teachers, a shy classmate, anyone--who has seemingly felt bad for you? There are such people in life, however rare, that aren't so absurdly shallow as to judge solely on appearance. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and those types of people understand that. I'm sure you're a very capable and intelligent young woman. The hard part is getting with and finding those types of people to be friends with. Friends help each other through and don't judge each other childishly.

If you choose to continue going to your current school, try your best to not be offended by the petty remarks of fellow classmates. Honestly, high schoolers can be ridiculously immature and blind to how hurtful their actions can be. Realize this, as you should endeavor to rise above it. Do you have a particular hobby that you enjoy? Become good at it. Make yourself valuable, and people will tend to naturally show more respect, especially if you get involved with the hobby at clubs or groups at the school.

Aside from the options of homeschooling or online classes, try not to weigh your life so heavily with school in general--it's merely stepping stones to much greater things out there for you. Keep your head up, and I wish you the best of luck.




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