I think my teachers hate me?!
Question: I think my teachers hate me?
One of my teachers called me out the other day, and said " I assume you want to work independently, so you can work by yourself" He told me that in front of the whole class, and he really humiliated me...I just responded by saying "sure".
I dont have anyone to talk to in some of my classes, and its really annoying because everybody has their own little groups in class, and im all working alone.
I had female teachers in the past, and I notice that they gave me good grades, and were nice towards me.
The only time I am happy is when i am with my 3 close friends at lunch, they accept me for who i am...and they respect me. Then the rest of the day is pure HELL.
I cant take it anymore..I hate all my classes. No one likes to talk to me, and I feel like i should isolate myself from everyone.
One of my teachers marked me late, just for arriving 2 minutes late to class today. So he told me this morning in front of the whole class " You're late and im going to have to mark you tardy" So, because of him i have to owe 1 hour of after school detention for being 2 minutes late tomorrow.
I'm just sick and tired of feeling disrespected and getting humiliated by my male teachers.
Answers:
well one of the first things you mentioned was your body odor. then your social anxiety. im thinking if you work on the bod odor situation, your anxiety may decrease a little. also just remember not to let anyone "assume" anything about you. if the teacher says a comment like that again you should speak up and say he doesnt have to assume anything about you, youre sitting right there why doesnt he just ask you if you want to work alone. if everyone else shares the work in a group you should not be denied that priveledge. also, if youre scared to speak up in class try talking to them after class. they might not realize the way they are making you feel. of course some teachers just might be assholes, so asses the situation before confronting them outside of class.
i know how u feel not having anyone to talk to in class, it can be awkward. it may be too late to start talking to classmates in your classes now but when new classes start make an attempt to make small talk with your neighbors, or anything you can do to let your voice be heard and make you more comfortable talking in class.
dont let anyone make you feel inferior. just because you arent a social creature doesnt mean you are a lesser one, everyone has their strengths.
hang in there, school and classmates are a ***** i know, but one day (sooner than you could ever imagine) youll be looking back on this with a whole new perspective.
school, from being the popular girl to the outcast, picking on people a little bit to being absolutly humiliated and bullied everyday. ive seen both sides-and they both suck.
i and many others have been there too, you are not alone.
Don't blame others especially teachers. We can make out of any thing into some thing if we are potential. Forget the past. It is full of tears. Don't think of the future it is full of fears, It is the present that contains cheers and you have to make use of it. Dont be worried about other people who are nothing as far as you are concerned.
Bo I'm guessing your a guy??? if not i apologize in advance. Sounds like your teacher is hating on you and even humiliating you in front of the whole class. If you went and tell the principle about it, they can actually get a warning or even fire. It happen at my school before, but not to me.
haha my teacher called me a stalker because i am always behind him but i think the teacher is trying to be funny( teachers try to be funny when they are not) but don't over think it, i thought my teacher hated me but he was actually just had a weird face that always looked angry
You do have good things going for you like hanging out with close friends at lunch, believe me itd be a lot worse if you just isalate, things will get better if you just hang with your friends because "WE ARE, YOUR FRIENDS, SO COME ON, COME ON"
Uhhh! You did say you have a body odor, take care of it and people won't mind being around or near you. You're late for class and you blame the teacher. No, No, No. I used to be so shy I would go in my room when family came over. Teachers saying things to you is going to happen, but you have to not take everything personal to the degree you're affected start thinking of things as a learning process. This will allow you to understand you and others.
You said you have three friends whom accept you as you are! Question: they've never said anything about the BO? Do they have BO as well? Accept BO is something you can't go without taking care of it. Did this just happen? You mentioned your female teachers liked you. You'll be fine, just change your thinking.