How do I seem more intimidating/tough to my enemies (to protect myself)?!
Question: How do I seem more intimidating/tough to my enemies (to protect myself)?
So, what I need to know is how I can is how to seem more tough and intimidating so people will leave me alone? Like, what do I say when they come up to me, what should I wear, what should my voice sound like, what should my face expression be?
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Don't try to act tough, don't spend days thinking of clever things to say, I'm in high school and most people assume I'm a p*ssy because of my looks (I probably am), but even when the tough kids try to mess with me I just don't take them seriously and kind of think it's funny, don't laugh though, just think of them as below you, think of them as pathetic little kids. When I do this they get confused and don't know what to do, I'm also kind of a loner and nobody really knows me so they are a little cautious when they find out I don't consider them a threat
Confidence is key. If you show confidence in yourself and a lack of fearing then people will realize how strong and fearless you really are.
Build up self-confidence. Be happy with yourself, who you are, what you wear, etc. If someone comes up to you screaming either A.) ignore them completely. Don't even seem phased by it. or B.) I would personally scream back, but that is just me. Showing that you won't allow others to push you around and standing up for yourself shows confidence.
People like to nit-pick at those that seem weaker with low self-esteem. It makes them feel bigger, better, and stronger. It sets up a hierarchy among themselves and others so...learn to be happy with yourself. Discovering that you are one awesome unique person with an awesome hairstyle and cool outfits on this world is a great start. :)