Suicidal thoughts once again... I don't know what to do...?!

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D'awwwwwwww dude don't worry. I have been in similar situations like you believe me.

For starters my dad doesn't know I'm his son (he left before he found out my mum was preggers). Never had a father figure to help and support me through tough situations.

All of my 'friends' are with me because I buy them food and stuff. I only found out last year they where just pricks who didn't really care if I was dying, or whatever. My 'best friend' decided to hang out with another guy for his image. The other guy is big, black and strong and makes my 'best friend' look good in sixth form.

The girl I have liked since I was 5 years old (young I know!) doesn't know I exist despite my efforts which are a lot if you ask me (we both went to the same primary school). She is now dating another guy and all I can do is sit and watch.

I've never had a single relationship and haven't ever gotten close to a girl. EVER!

I'm failing the subjects I'm taking in school.

My life is pretty ****. Well it was. Now I'm just learning from my mistakes and moving on. As for your situation, I say you just find new friends. You seem like a nice guy so it will be easy. As for the girl situation, just wait. We're both 18 and we still have a whole life ahead of us. Girls come and go. Just find the right one and you're sorted. Nobody said getting a girl is easy.

Just forget about being suicidal. Seeking counseling or talk to a family member if it helps. I know I'm just a guy on yahoo answers, but still feel free to contact me for advice.

Sometimes in life we go through storms. The scary thing is we don't know how long they will last. Just gotta let them ride.

18 year old guy living in London and still a virgin. Faced similar experiences.

Become An Hero, others will notice you.

On a side note this made me feel a lot better about myself.

If what you are doing is not working, then try another way. Suicide however is not the answer! You are young and it is not uncommon to go through a change of friends at this age. You are trying to find out who you are and what direction you want to take in life.

The reason you have the feeling you will never be loved is that you really don't love yourself the way you should. You don't "have" to be alone for the rest of your life. Bottom line is you can't change others, but you can change yourself!

Get involved in projects or activites you enjoy and feel passionate about. You will meet others who share the same interests and passions. Reach out to others by volunteering. By helping others you will gain a sense of responsibility and confidence.

Because you have been feeling hopeless and suicidal, maybe it is time to get outside help from a professional therapist. A good therapist will help you with issues of self-confidence as well as help you find ways to cope when you feel depressed. Our Hotline also helps teens and young adults who are struggling with relationship issues, depression and suicidal thoughts. We can be reached by phone or through e-mail, and our website has some great ideas for getting through tough times as as teen: www.yourlifeyourvoice.org

Take care and keep reaching out. Hope to hear from you again!

Counselor, CJ
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
hotline@boystown.org

www.yourlifeyourvoice.org

First, you are only 18 yrs old. I know its hard to think anything better can happen at that age. Your friends, the girl, they are all underaged and immature. Most people I went to high school I no longer talk to. You have your whole life ahead of you to meet new people and discover new things. I had the same problem in high school. I was in love with 2 girls who did not like me back. But I got over it fast trust me. And if the only people you think care about you is your family, then you are lucky to have a family that cares about you! Very few friends/girlfriends are reliable as family is. Im 37 years old, so Ive seen this. You will not be alone for the rest of your life....there are way too many people your gona meet in the comng years. Understand it will get better!

Okay so I believe nothing can help you now but yourself. I have gone through it too.

Just have a moment to yourself and think ''Is this who I want to be? Rotting away in my own thoughts for the rest of my life? Is this really me? Do I REALLY want to pussy out of the game before it ends?'' ...etc.

Go find a movie/book which inspires you and gives you courage, strength..... etc

The only thing that worked for me, but that's just me judging from my life. Every person is different so might be different for you.

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By the way, if nobody likes you, then change you. Don't be boring, be exciting. I used to be completely shy but a loner, so then I changed myself to a berserk, eccentric, mad lunatic and that's the way all my friends like me.

Life experience

Don't be sad! Cheer up!

You're going to college soon and you wont even see their faces anymore. Women, you'll meet better ones that care about you. Keep a smile on your face, so that girls see you. No person likes sad faces. Keep your friends phones on your cell so you can reject their calls. Choose a college away from home. Break up with your pseudo-friends, that's right, tell them not to call you anymore. You gotta love yourself, man. And talk about your disappointments with a distant relative, a far away uncle for example.

Good luck! And I almost forgot, hide your money in a better place.