Do you think people who cry are pathetic?!


Question: Do you think people who cry are pathetic?
I think they are especially men who cry, I am a girl and I never cry. I am not bottling up my emotions, I just don't get sad about things.

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If you were really OK with it, you wouldn't be asking this question. It is not human to go without crying sometimes, gender be damned.



Not at all. Crying is part of the full range of human emotion. I would be concerned if I stopped getting angry, or crying or feeling love for others.

There was a period of my life when I did not cry. For me, I had learned that it was due to the fact that being sad was unacceptable in my dysfunctional family system. I learned from an early age that crying would be met with aggression (because being sad was seen as a criticism of parenting). Once I gave myself permission to cry, life became lighter--I wasn't carrying around the heaviness of stifling how I sometimes felt (even when watching a movie--not all the time, but every now and then).

Excessive crying can be as much of a problem as not crying at all. Ask yourself what you associate with crying..."pathetic" does not sound like something you would want to be. What if crying wasn't "pathetic?" What if it were okay?

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crying serves no purpose its only for babies, but u cant help but get watery eyed if something incredibly bad has happened, but full blown crying omg its for the weak. but hey i guess some would say your cold if u dont cry, but i think it just shows maturity, only kids cry i think its an emotion to show others that u are scared/worried/confused. but if your old enough u dont get your mum u just get pity for being a chump. keep it together and deal with it. cryings only a last resort maybe if your homeless totally lame and stuff then ye crying gives out a message of help me i cant do this on my own, but if not your just pathetic. btw this is for guys, girls cry all the time because hormones and stuff. If u cry dont be suprised if your mistaken for a fool, or jacked the next day



Well when you get older,like me,you can't cry every minute.
It's fine for people to cry,that is an emotion,I remember crying once
at my friend's viewing.I sure as heck left quick,that is a rare time.
It you think about it,you can read the papers and cry.
I look outside,there are many things others would cry about.
For me this is life,a crying shame.let them cry. bye



most of the time but it depends on the situation usually i think people shouldn't cry and should just get on with things but it is acceptable if your life is really hard and you get tired of everything and just break or if your in therapy its ok due to the high level of emotion



im a girl i dont usually cry , i cry like a couple of times a year but its usually due to lack of sleep then getting really angry then crying , when i say lack of sleep i mean no sleep for a couple of nights . i think it just depends on situations .



i think people who cry, even men, are normal. crying is a way of relieving emotions so that they don't build up causing high blood pressure and other health issues. i see nothing wrong with being human and crying when you are sad or upset.

my personal opinion.



I think if someone cries once in a while its fine. Sometimes you just need to let it out. But it annoys me when some people cry all the time, it makes me think 'what an attention seeker' or 'wow you must live in a cotton bubble'



I'm female and rarely cry (as in sad crying, laughing hysterically doesn't count! :D).

It depends on the situation.



If someone is crying because they are feeling sad they often cant help it. to say they are pathetic shows your lack of feelings



No. Crying is normal. I cry, and I am not ashamed of it.



No, they are compassionate and empathetic's..

me



You sound like you need help and it's fine for people to cry



Didn't you ask this yesterday too? Did you not get enough answers?



not at all..everyone needs to cry sometimes..but u seem a heartless ******



I think what you tried doing to those Dalmatians was evil.



No. My great grandmother recently died, and I cried. what if you grew a penis? would you cry then?




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