Why am I so pathetic?!

Question: Why am I so pathetic?

Everything I do even if I'm trying to help somebody seems to be the wrong thing. I'm not "good" at anything mostly just average then everything else complete rubbish. I push people away without really meaning to because im a d*ckhead. Out of all the people who used to be my friends only one of them still talks to me and even he only really talks to me at college, after college hes with the rest of them so he wont even ask me. My girlfriend is the only person who actually seems to like me but shes moving to a different college so I will only see her after for a few hours. Just when I think I have finally got a part of my life going the right direction something f*cks it up for me and I feel like sh*te. I don't even see the point in living but I'm so useless I can't even get myself to swallow a few pills. How am I supposed to ever sort it out?

Answers:

Welcome to the Human Race!

I don't wish to give the appearance of being cruel, but the situation that you have described is one that occurs 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to almost everybody else on planet Earth.
I think the exception to the rule are persons who might be described as being either psychopathic or sociopathic. And even these people can learn to feign the behaviour associated with " feeling pathetic ".

Look, take your time, plan ahead, develop interests, keep yourself busy.
Don't go out of your way to be friendly or helpful- a little taciturnity helps.
Good Luck!

hi,

i used to be like that but then i just thought "hey what am i doing i want to be the best, ok il be the best" its all about internal self motivation, make your self a goal and do everything in your power to achieve it, and then look at what you did right not what you did wrong!

hope this helps

my mind, not the bible which is irrelevant in modern society and is only obeyed by the weak minded, the narrow minded and the ones who look for loopholes to abuse people of different beliefs or lifestyles

Lee, if you haven't already, please see a doctor as soon as possible. If you are under a doctor's care already, then tell him or her that whatever treatment they have you on is not working. There are many treatments out there, Lee. You don't have to suffer like this. Again, please see a doctor as soon as you can. If you are, and your current doctor refuses to change your treatment, then find a new doctor. In the meantime, look up Psalm 34:18 in your Bible; I find it very encouraging. I'm rooting for you, Lee. Peace to you.

oh lee you bit down i can see.but we all have off weeks years etc.you just having some tough breaks at the moment try see it like that...if you keep seeing yourself as a dick head then other people pick up on your vibes.i think you need assertiveness lessons.if you in uk then local collages do 6week courses.good luck

ask god to help you sort it out

uhm see a shrink but ik im an asshole and thats why my friends like me

maybe ur just under too much stress?

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