what do you do when you feel isolated and abandoned?!


Question: What do you do when you feel isolated and abandoned?
i mean ive got my honour, pride and are noble and fight valiantly against adversity and dont want to appear as some desperado creep ?

im 33 and have had an early life of happiness , good upbringing , well loved etc - but an adulthood the reverse of that - adversity , injustice , psychological problems, learning problems , social problems , psychiatric problems , criminal problems, going to prison , psychiatric hospitals.

ive done better on my life for years now through hard work and determination , living in a one bedroom flat on sick benefits , giving me a little stability - im poor and own hardly any possessions.
because of my problems , misfortunes , bad choices and injustices - i missed out on all the average life experiences like - working , getting qualifications and building adult relationships.

even though im naturally reserved , quiet and private type of person, to this day im very solitary , lonely and feel alienated and abandoned living alone ?

i never had the opportunities to build relationships with like minded people, but i have my integrity and honour and wont just put myself out there out of desperation . - at 33 its not just simple to find company or build social relationships .

i have my mother on the phone everyday to talk to, and she encourges me to go on with honour and integrity and she praises me often at how strong and noble iam, how well im doing ...how much integrity ive got .

but it still doesn't help ? i feel lonely on the edge of society , panicking about my future ? - other than my immediate family , i dont just have the luxury of anyone to commincate with or talk to.

Answers:

being involved in a church of sorts (Jehovah's ostracise us) puts you into a community. i am not myself but know people get a lot out of it. many churches are in decline and so have to try harder to keep the ones they have. also try an interest there are plenty out there that don't cost a lot. i don't mean drink etc either but shared experience brings folk together. it is hard there huge amount of rejection in society caused a lot by technology like this and tv. also try just say good morning or hello honestly to folk it engenders friendliness. smokers tend to be more friendly i smoke for free - passively. sports clubs are good and volunteering

take care



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