my mom just told me she want's to commit suicide?!


Question: My mom just told me she want's to commit suicide?
What do I do?? I can't talk to my dad, she asked me not to. I am not close enough to the rest of my family or my dad. Help

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she said she 'wants' to commit suicide. she did not say she 'will' commit suicide. so i think all u can do is be there for her. do family fun things together with your mom. when she feels happy, she wont think of suicide
-help her to cook
-watch movies together
-go out for walks
-go out to dinner
-give her special gifts which shows how much she means to u

the bottom line is u should spend more time with her, keep her occupied. do not let her stress. do not argue with her. make her feel special. when your dad sees the way you guys are bonding, he would want to spend time together too. so then u can go on happy family outings :)

just be there for her and spend time with her and make her happy



If you believe in this talk too an the police right away death threats are very serious and she needs help right away try your best to be there for her and comfort her let her know she's loved and that you care about her
She may be made at you at first for telling people but this is very serious reminder her that you did it cause you love her and in truth when anyone declares there death they don't really want to die or they wouldn't of told you but she will still hurt herself in some way because in the back of her mind its if no one helps me then I have no reason to live if some one does help me then that means she has someone who loves her and a reason to live its a CRY FOR HELP so HELP HER
I hope your mom turns out ok and try to get her some long term help cause hospitals only watch her for a couple of days



it doesn't really matter how close you are to any of them. Someone needs to be told. Either tell your dad...neighbor, teacher at school...or call crisis services hot line and ask for advice. Not fair of your mom to tell you and expect you to handle the burden...perhaps she will go see her doctor at the very least? bottom line...TELL someone, or tell her to. She has to have at least one friend or acquaintence



okay...phone your doctor ( it will give you an emergency out of hours number to call). Call that and tell them what she said . I dont know if you have nhs24 where you are ,we do in scotland
0800242424

phone them and tell them.
I would also suggest you do not leave your mums side until she gets medical help ( incase she tries to harm herself)

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You NEED to tell someone that is close to her and will help her get help. She doesn't want to tell anyone because it's a hard thing to talk about, but she really does need and probably wants help.



If you think she's serious, or if she's told you she has a plan to do it, you need to call 911. She may be mad at you...maybe even for a long time...but isn't that better than her going through with it?



Tell you dad and call 911. If they won't let you, then go to a neighbor for help. Your mom needs to see a doctor because she is very ill right now.



Hello Ecila. I am very sorry you have been put in such a difficult situation.

Do you think you could give us some more information? Which country are you located in?



If you think she's in danger, call 911 and call for an ambulance, or if you're able drive her to the closese emergency room.



If you think she is in immediate danger call 999 (UK) or 911 (US/Canada) and ask for an ambulance immediately.



Call 911 Now!!!!



tell your father now whether you get on or not he needs to know. Get someone else to tell him if need be just do it ASAP.



make her go to the hospital




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