why do i always feel inadaquate around people?!


Question: Why do i always feel inadaquate around people?
I don’t feel like I’m worthy of a friend or girlfriend because I don’t feel like a person or have a soul (I don’t see things the way other people see them, or it’s like I’m not on the wave link with the rest of people. I’m always observing and trying to interact. I don’t know how to react I see others talking and communicating, and I don’t understand the fulfillment there getting. If I’m interested in a topic being discussed I will join in on the conversation. While talking to the person my main goal and objective is to try and not look dumb. I choose my words very carefully. I sometimes have a hard time finding words. Interestingly this problem does not only occur with people I don’t know, but people I know very well. Example: Dad, uncles, cousins, friends. I feel that there are acward pauses in the conversation. I also feel a lot of anxiety during these pauses. I have had this problem for as long as I can remember, but it has gotten worse. I have had great conversations before, but have been few and far between. I’m never relaxed during conversations. There is not one person on this Earth that I can talk to about anything.





In some social situations I always try to invoke positive emotional Reponses. I just start throwing out jokes even at my expense and see if they stick. This makes me feel like a clown.

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This sounds just like asperger sybndrome. I had a friend who had this disorder and your description sounds just like the feelings he told me about. Give it a google and talk to your doctor or a family member about it. Their are some meds that can help as well as some counseling techniques. I wish you the best and I hope this helps :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_sy…




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